I'm pretty open, and some may find that uncomfortable. but I think we're all here, taking a leap of faith, and hoping we'll land in the arms of the right person
after a long haul on some windingly long roads, I think I'm finally the kind of person I want to be. polite, sincere, painfully brutally honest and the last incurable romantic on the planet. it also helps that I'm hilariously funny.
My interests include surfing (incredibly badly), squash (worse), and muay thai (which I enjoy in a big way). I spend a lot of time in physical pursuits, gymming and so forth, so it would be great if you shared similar interests (or at least a willingness to watch, point and laugh). I also like to collect good colognes, so at the very least I'll be generally pleasant to stand downwind from (scouts honour, promise!). I'm also keeping myself busy by studying for my second degree (communications science this time). when I'm not doing all that, I work as a designer
what? still not convinced?? Sheesh...you're so needy! read on, maybe I can still change your mind
hmm...well, I'm told I give champion foot massages. best of all, I make prizewinning koeksisters (the recipe was a six time winner in Malmesbury, according to my family). as an added contrast, I also write naughty fiction freelance (no judgies!). I'm basically just a nice guy, looking for an equally nice girl in a city where they seem to be scarce. I have been on various dating sites for five years now, and am slowly losing hope that I'll meet my match here (maybe because I was raised with old school morals and values, and in this day and age, there doesn't seem to be a place for that).
are there any worthwhile women left in cape town? I don't know so much anymore, and I'm growing ever more discouraged. women don't seem inclined to woo, nor make men their priority (but prefer to rather make them an option) maybe you can prove me wrong - you know you want to! at worst, you'll lose an hour of your life over coffee with a stranger. at best...maybe you'll find someone with an insatiable appetite for kisses that last forever, and cuddling that lasts longer. be warned - if you win my heart, be prepared for unrelenting and absolutely shameless flirtation. I'll make it my mission to make you smile and blush as often as I can a day.
*Movies - Upside Down, I Origins, Predestination, Life of Pi, Life as a House, Aliens, Predator (1+2), Hellboy (1+2), Dune, The Cell, Silence of the Lambs
actually, no...thats not all I think about. I sometimes wonder who will fill the empty part of me like water filling a hole. and then I tell myself that I can live without knowing, but it will be a harder life because of it.
either writing, working or recovering from muay thai training. but perhaps you could inspire me to try something different?