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sparkwheel

40 M Jamaica Plain, MA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 24–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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i'm comfortable in my skin, enthusiastic and optimistic, always looking forward to the next new experience or adventure. i love to explore. if not pressed for time, i'll let myself get lost driving around because it's cool discovering where I end up and how it all connects. i enjoying learning. i tend to be playful, light-hearted, and silly, but can also contemplate more serious issues and be a problem solver. i know that balance is key. i'm loyal. relationships are important to me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Turned 40 last December and almost simultaneously ended a sixteen year career with the same company. That said, I'm feeling liberated and excited to apply myself toward something I care and feel passionate about and believe in. I've recently picked up some part time work tutoring English at a local community college and love it. Feeling that education might be the direction I want to go. Just helping people has been so amazing. Also lately, I've been putting the finishing touches on one recording project and will be doing the same to another in just a couple of months, so I've been feeding my soul.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
my stuffed artichokes will melt in your mouth. i can follow a recipe but enjoy cooking and prefer making up my own dishes. cooking with someone else is even more fun.

getting lost.

being myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
not sure. you tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
this list is not exclusive and in no particular order... silversun pickups, pond, swervedriver, frank black, the pixies, pink floyd, led zeppelin, tool, sonic youth, early pumpkins, yes, the mars volta, the decemberists, death cab for cutie, billie holiday, the beatles, black sabbath, bob marley, bela fleck and the flecktones, john coltrane, devotchka, the flaming lips, the shins, blondie...

same with this list... eternal sunshine of a spotless mind (and really any charlie kaufman film), mississippi burning, a clockwork orange (among other kubrick titles), buffalo '66, amelie, the game, rebel without a cause, donnie darko, twin peaks, the daily show, colbert report, battlestar galactica, various documentaries.

and this one... a sun also rises, zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance, do androids dream of electric sheep, for whom the bell tolls, jitterbug perfume, breakfast of champions, the town and the city, subterraneans, tristessa, a clockwork orange, a brave new world, the stranger...

as for food, indian cuisine is my absolute favorite but enjoy japanese, armenian, italian, mexican, thai, vietnamese. red wines like bordeauxs, pinot noirs, various microbrews, IPAs.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music
art
family
friends
my galaxy S4
my fender strat
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
always thinking about music and songs and writing, about how distinctly different energies between people intimate their connections... friends and family... sports (i grew up in the Boston area, where the local sports teams have been woven into the fabric of the New England for generations)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you felt something of a spark or connection while checking out my profile i tend to connect well with those that are passionate and creative.

here are some other things I think would rock...

...if you've got tattoos, you love to laugh, be silly and playful. you're not afraid to babble away if so inspired. you leave random fun messages on your friend's voice mail where singing is occasionally involved, you enjoy listening to your friends babble on with their stories.

...if you want to challenge each other in positive ways and for our own growth, you believe that honest and respectful communication is important to relationships. you own your flaws and are honest about how you are feeling. and you can simply be yourself.

we'll know if we both connect.