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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Today – 6:47am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
My self-summary
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There's plenty of information about me below, but I'm not so sure compatibility is based on whether two people like the same TV shows or books. Shared interests are important, but I'm looking for someone who I'm "life compatible" with. Meaning...have your shit together and know what you want and where you are going. And let's see if were on similar paths.

That said, I tend to be drawn to creative types, though I'm not particularly creative myself...maybe in the kitchen, but I'm not the artsy type, although I appreciate people who are.

Disclaimer - I am an animal person. I have a cat and a dog. If you do not like animals, we won't get along. I do understand that some people have allergies and I won't ask someone to suffer for my sake.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making the most of what I have and striving for something better. I have a good job that I like, but it doesn't define me. I have an awesome family and great friends. I would like to meet someone in the same situation and we can share our family and friends. That would be ideal!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking and making top 10 lists. Trivia.

Stuff I'm not really good at but enjoy doing anyway:
Basketball, tennis, golf, bowling, skiing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
No clue, i never asked. Maybe my reddish hair?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Dave Eggers, Devil in the White City. If you like to travel, try Bill Bryson, his books are Frommers meets David Sedaris.

Tom Petty, Johnny Cash, classic rock, Foster the People. Florence and the Machine, Mumford and Sons, OAR, Weezer, Death Cab for Cutie, the Xx, Deadmau5. I like something in almost every genre of music. Does NPR count?

Shawshank, Boondock Saints, LOTR, anything sci-fi, Superhero flicks, documentaries. Love off the wall indie flicks, recommendation welcome - If you like art, have Netflix and haven't seen it, I highly recommend Exit Through the Gift Shop.

Bill Maher, American Horror Story, The Newsroom, Walking Dead, Jon Stewart, Breaking Bad, Rescue Me, Family Guy.

I'm open to anything. I love all things cheese. I LOVE French food. I also love's a hobby, passion and therapy all at once, and I'm good at it so I'm well fed too! Now if I can just find someone to do the dishes
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
My friends
My dogs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics and the environment. What's for dinner. Why they don't have grocery stores for single people. I don't need 8 hotdogs or 8 hot dog buns. Single people like hot dogs too, but I dont want to eat them every day for a week.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner and drinks with friends.

There's something to be said for staying in with a nice dinner, a bottle of wine and Netflix...this is much more enjoyable with company.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty open minded sexually. Please do not take this as me being here just for sex, I'm looking for a serious relationship, but sex plays a part. If you are not confident sexually and get uncomfortable talking about it, we may not be a good fit.
You should message me if
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You're long and strong and down to get the friction on. No, wait. That's Sir Mix-a-Lot. I don't want to go out with him. Email me if you are not Sir Mix-a-Lot.