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33 Berkeley, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24-36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
Open relationship
Relationship Type
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Average build
Not at all
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Geek, maker, burner, kinky. Traveling around the country for 6-8 months. Looking for tour guides, pen pals, hookups, other.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm taking 6-8 months off to explore the country and visit old friends. I bought an old ambulance to slowly convert into an RV as I go. Approximate travel itinerary, subject to change:

Late August: Chicago, Badlands, Denver, Grand Canyon, Las Vegas, Reno
September: Boise, Seattle, Portland
October: San Francisco, Oakland, Berkeley
November: San Francisco, San Jose, Yosemite, Los Angeles, San Diego
December: Joshua Tree, Grand Canyon, Arizona, Texas, St Louis, Chicago
January: Indianapolis, Nashville, Atlanta
February: Carolinas, Virginias, DC
March: New York City
April-May: Boston and points north.

Along the way I'll be changing my OKC city (or trying to) to match my next week or two of plans, so if OKC says I'm near you, then I soon will be. Some cities I'll just be passing through; some I'll spend a few weeks exploring. I'll mostly be camping, with a little couch surfing and hosteling thrown in.

On this trip I plan to make a lot of stops at Makerspaces across the country to check them out, say hi, and maybe build a few things. I have a vague plan to work on prototypes and ideas for things that I might put on kickstarter once my trip is over.

Usually, my day job is doing IT and operations for tech companies. In between those jobs, I do hobby software development (, and make things people can climb (like the hot air balloon installation in my photos) and/or set on fire.
I’m really good at
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hindsight and over-thinking things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The ambulance-cum-SWAT-vehicle-cum-RV that I'm driving on my road trip.

Or my beard, when i have one. I usually grow it out in the winter and go clean shaven in the summer.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Intelligent friends
Creative outlets
Thrift shopping
Writing implements
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends at a party or cookout, somewhere else playing board games, doing freelance computer programming, home playing video games, hanging out at a local hackerspace, or something entirely unplanned. I don't really have "typical" plans for any given time/day.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I cried at the end of Wall-E.
You should message me if
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You think we might enjoy hanging out together, with your friends or just the two of us, for conversation or adventure or gaming or coding or otherwise.

You want to be my copilot for a leg of my trip. I'm currently flying solo for parts of November and December, then most of February through April.

We are a 90%+ match. I'd love to hear from you on the subject of one or more "Unacceptable answers" from our mutual questions.

You like cycling, adventure, exploring, playgrounds, parks.

You attend any of the following events, or those like them: DragonCon, Arisia, GenCon, Origins, Burning Man, Alchemy, Euphoria, Firefly, Dark Odyssey, Frolicon, Shibaricon