Getting to know people by way of activities is ideal for me. Let's go out and do something interesting and exciting rather than just sit around and hang out.
If you visit my profile after I've messaged you, and you decide I'm not right for you, I wouldn't be averse to hearing from you anyway. I thrive on constructive feedback, and you won't get a "well then fuck you" back from me. Thanks if you do, no hard feelings if you don't.