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sparr

30 / M / Straight / Available

Somerville, Massachusetts

His Details

Last Online
Today – 2:17am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Education
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am a maker, geek, utilitarian, and rationalist. My jokes tend toward wordplay and my leisure time towards innovative or distracting pursuits.
Getting to know people by way of activities is ideal for me. Let's go out and do something interesting and exciting rather than just sit around and hang out.

If you visit my profile after I've messaged you, and you decide I'm not right for you, I wouldn't be averse to hearing from you anyway. I thrive on constructive feedback, and you won't get a "well then fuck you" back from me.

PS: I usually have a beard in the winter and am clean shaven in the summer. This is not set in stone.
What I’m doing with my life
My day job usually involves computer server administration and software development. I also do electronics design,software development, and 3D printing for fun, and would like to turn some of that into a business. I'm spending a lot of time at Artisan's Asylum exploring my creative hobbies, including woodworking, metalworking, welding, and some other crafts.
I’m really good at
puzzles, games, math, origami, procedural art, shibari, logic, debate, asynchronous and multithreaded conversations, tying my shoes
The first things people usually notice about me
There is usually something witty and/or geeky written on my shirt. Possibly an xkcd comic, origami diagram, or technology-oriented company logo.
The six things I could never do without
Distractions
Intelligent friends
Creative outlets
Deal hunting
Pedantry
Vocabulary
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whether I'll be staying in or going out tonight, and if so to do what and with whom.
How much work is left on the treehouse village I'm designing and building with friends from the local maker and burner communities.
What the right way to end that conversation last night would have been.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends at a party or cookout, or home playing video games, somewhere else playing board games, doing freelance computer programming, hanging out at Artisan's Asylum which is Somerville's local makerspace, or any of a dozen other things. I don't really do "typical".
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm willing to admit just about anything true if you ask, and almost nothing without being asked. Feel free to be specific in your message.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
you think we might enjoy hanging out together, 1 on 1 or in a group or in public.

you like adventure or exploring (particularly of the urban exploration variety) or playgrounds or parks.

you are intrigued by anything that I publish to my Flickr which is a far better sampling of my hobbies than I could ever reproduce in text.

you attend any burns on the east coast, such as Alchemy or Euphoria or Firefly, or conventions like DragonCon and Frolicon and Arisia.

anything about my profile particularly appeals to you, or particularly horrifies you. I love a good debate, even if that's all we will ever have.

you aren't scared away by my existing polyamorous relationship(s).

you are kinky, or don't mind that I am.