I was born and raised in South America and came to the US in my early twenties after spending a few months as a field hand in a couple of Israeli Kibbutzim and later living in an artists' village in central Israel. I settled in NYC where I lived for a few years (during the mid to late '60s) During the next 17 years, I lived mostly in Atlanta, GA, spending some time in Washington DC and Boston, MA. I moved to the Bay Area in 1984 and have been a resident of Marin/Sonoma since. Somewhere along the line, I was married twice, acquiring two young boys (package deal) with my second marriage. Made a few mistakes along the way and learned my share of lessons; by the way, school's still on; the lessons keep on coming. If there's something I have learned after more than sixty years on the planet, is that I'm as clueless as everybody else, I just hide it better because I can speak pretty.
Looking for a casual relationship, including friendship, intimacy, and sensuality to begin with; beyond that, I'm open to all possibilities; with the right person the sky is the limit.
I prefer women who are independent, strong and self-reliant, and at the same time beautiful and feminine. Must have a terrific sense of humor and be able to laugh at her self. Be down to earth and appreciate simplicity. Be free and at ease in her sexuality. Probably musical/artistic or creative in some way and also have good business sense. Appreciates friendship and genuinely likes men. You have a spiritual bent while at the same time have both feet firmly planted on the physical/material world. I believe we all have "issues" and carry some "baggage"; if you deny having either of these, then you are too perfect for me and should stay away. If you are a "Born Again" or other "Super-Christian" type, please don't bother. Other "undesirables" (tongue firmly in cheek here!) include: new age bimbos, spiritual divas, evangelical vegetarians and other fringe dwellers such as right or left wing radicals with equally hateful agendas.
All of the above should not be considered as strict requirements. It represents mainly a theoretical ideal person. It is highly unlikely that either of us would even come close to finding this ideal being, reality never fulfills the ideal; two people meet and, provided there is a basic attraction, fondness, and empathy, they work with whatever they bring to the party and develop a relationship where differences are as important and joyfully welcome as similarities.
Politically, I'm too much of a "Realist" to be a Liberal or a Conservative, still, too independent minded to describe myself as dwelling in the "wish-washy" middle of the road. While I don't like "labels," especially when applied to me, I guess a close description would be "free market libertarian" or "anarcho capitalist." I haven't voted in the last three elections because I thought the available choices were pathetic.
Last but not least, and this is very serious, if you took the side of HAMAS (ISIS, Al Qaeda, Hezbollah, Muslim Brotherhood, et al) in the ongoing conflict in Israel and the rest of the mideast, please don't bother, there would be nothing for us to say to each other; martyrdom as a vocation is insane; the murder of Jews, Christians, and anybody else that holds a different view of the world is unacceptable. I'm a non-practicing Jew, American by choice, but I am extremely fond of Israel and have a strong appreciation for what it means to all Jews; I support Zionism as much as I can.
In term of looks, I'm reasonably attractive. I'm neither tall nor athletic, but even so, I think I'm quite handsome and sexy. I have brown eyes, light-medium complexion, gray hair and beard. I am warm, affectionate, humorous and playful. I’m not an outdoorsy, hiking, biking, skiing, jogging kind of guy. I am more the indoor, culinary, quasi-cultured, thoughtful, witty type with a slight metaphysical bent, though I must admit that I can be talked into hanging out at the beach on occasion nor would I say no to soaking in a hot-tub or going on a picnic. My other interests include jazz, reading, art, movies/theater, HAI/Tantra. I'm unpretentious, travel light and prefer simplicity in most everything. I know my way around a kitchen though I prefer to do my cooking with a special friend or companion rather than by myself. I am gentle, considerate and emotionally available. Add to that being an incorrigible romantic, and, as one, I love sharing intimate moments with a lover, be it holding hands, jointly cooking a meal or making sweet, passionate love.
I am sexy, playful, and somewhat intense.
My spirituality is marked by experiencing transcendental moments arising out of peak experiences leading to strong feelings of oneness and love, usually surrounding art, music and deep intimacy with a loved one... Very heart centered...