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spcymnk

34 / M / straight / Single

Castro Valley, California

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5' 9" (1.75m).
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
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Languages
English (Fluently), Hindi (Okay), Sanskrit (Poorly), Other (Fluently)

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I am a hungry mind, compassionate, and inquisitive.

My Self-Summary

"It is never too late to have a Happy Childhood" - I think that describes my attitude towards life lately. Are you one of those who wants to have(or is having) a happy childhood (again!) ? If you are then you know that it takes some amount of hard work and resourcefulness to build upon.

If you're in the pursuit of your dreams, yet are grounded enough to know where you're going then you could possibly be my type.

I'm into singing/reading poetry/prose in an esoteric language, traveling, yoga, white-water rafting, renting cabins, playing badminton/tennis/pool (possibly can kick your butt), concocting plans to get out the rat race and lately trying to get back into working out.

What I'm looking for:
I cannot tell who I will click with. The ways of cupid are beyond reason.
Since I'm secure in my pursuits and enjoy them thoroughly - I wont tell you how you should lead your life and what choices you make. I hope I will have something to learn from you. It'd be nice if you:
1) have something going for yourself (career wise or intellectual or creative)
2) are independent/self sufficient, take care of yourself mentally, physically and spiritually.

Dislikes:
1) Judging others without getting to know them.
2) People who think they know it all.

Chemistry is important, we'll have to find out.

My interests: road trips,travel,whitewater rafting,bowling,shooting pool, vegetarian cooking, learning sanskrit, singing sanskrit poetry,comedy clubs,plays/musicals, ,tennis ,badminton ,yoga ,perl/java programming ,simplifying things
Now in Sanskrit
Just a beautiful sanskrit verse/poem (Sunandaa describing to Indumati, the great qualities of the king of Anga and why she should choose him) from RaghuvaMsham - the tale of Rama's dynasty.

nisargabhinnaaspadamekasaMsthaM
yasmindvayaM shriishcha sarasvatii cha.
kaantyaa giraa suundritayaa cha yogyaa
tvameva kalyaaNi bhavestRRitiiyaa..

What I’m doing with my life

Currenly spending a lot of time learning sanskrit. Hanging out with friends whenever I can.

I’m really good at

badminton, singing sanskrit poetry(when I'm by myself!), simplifying complex concepts.

The first things people usually notice about me

happy, easy going, polite, inquisitive - also they will have no idea what i'm up to beneath that external.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

books: lot of them are related to philosophy, hageology and sanskrit.

food: indian, malaysian, some italian, ethiopian, chinese etc.

The six things I could never do without

veggie food sanskrit books movies a warm blanket shower badminton racket

I spend a lot of time thinking about

how life works and whats the best way to have fun.

On a typical Friday night I am

not always the same: hanging out with friends or at a movie, or meeting new friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I give great massages! :) j/k.

You should message me if

if you are one or many of the following: compassionate, intellectual, easy going, into languages, philosophy, yoga, meditation, cooking, Travel, going on road trips, badminton etc.