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29 F Albany, NY

My Details

Last Online
Apr 27
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a fairly normal kind of girl, if by fairly normal anyone could mean "pansexual, bipolar, moderately ambitious, internet-addicted, music-loving movie-watching snarky sarcastic hopeless romantic". But this is the internet, so that basically is normal, isn't it?

I nitpick and write pretty decent poetry and mediocre short stories. I love Sappho, Shakespeare, Jim Butcher, Douglas Adams, Catullus, Chuck Palahniuk, T. S. Eliot, Neil Gaiman, Allen Ginsberg and Diane Duane.

I spend a lot of time daydreaming.

I have eight tattoos: the VFD eye on my left ankle, irises on my right ankle, a rat on my left collarbone, a lizard on my right collarbone, a semicolon behind my right ear, (...) behind my left ear, a Starfleet science insignia on my left wrist, and an owl on my right wrist.

I can't go anywhere without my Droid, a notebook and pencil, and a book to read. You never know when inspiration will strike... or boredom.

I am an INFP, an "Idealist" type.

I am opinionated and loud about it, compassionate and evangelical about it, and optimistic and clinging to that by my fingernails sometimes.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work at a library in Albany, NY. I've been writing, mostly for myself. I have an Etsy shop where I sell blankets and jewelry that I make.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making things up. I'm a great improviser, and a great storyteller. My memory's shit, though. I'm a pro at giving hugs. People love my hugs, and I love hugging people. I'm very good at listening to people and giving good advice. Between the listening and the hugs, I end up playing counselor to a lot of my friends.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my glasses or my sense of humor or style of talking. I'm definitely geek-chic, and I try to ride the line between idealism and cynicism in a funny way. I'm kind of deadpan, though, so sometimes people can't tell when I'm joking.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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(books) Anything by Jim Butcher, Diane Duane, Douglas Adams, Neil Gaiman, Neal Stephenson, Chuck Palahniuk, Scott Westerfeld, Dianna Wynne Jones, Lemony Snicket/Daniel Handler, Robin Hobb, Naomi Novik, Charlaine Harris, Tom Stoppard, or P.G. Wodehouse. I'm a sci-fi and fantasy fan. I'm also really into Sherlock Holmes.

(comics) Watchmen, Y: The Last Man, Enigma, Transmetropolitan, Ex Machina

(movies) The Princess Bride, Charlie Bartlett, X-Men: First Class, Inglourious Basterds, Sherlock Holmes, The Fall, Star Trek (2, 3, 4, and the new one), Rosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead, Moulin Rouge, Reservoir Dogs, Fight Club, The Royal Tenenbaums, The Big Lebowski, The Usual Suspects, Little Miss Sunshine, Kiss Kiss Bang Bang, Casablanca, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Thumbsucker, Boondock Saints, Secretary, Iron Man, Thor, Captain America, The Avengers... I love movies. I like movies about drug users and criminals, dysfunctional people, and superheroes.

(television) Currently airing: Game of Thrones, Hannibal, Person of Interest, Teen Wolf, Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D., Almost Human, Black Sails

Not currently airing: Venture Bros., Sherlock, True Blood, Chuck, The Big Bang Theory, Fringe, White Collar, My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic, Supernatural, Heroes, Glee, The Dresden Files, Torchwood, Firefly, and Stargate Atlantis. The old Granada Sherlock Homes series with Jeremy Brett basically rocks my socks off.

(music) look for user speccygeekgrrl at that's me, and that's what I listen to and love. If you want a short list: The Mountain Goats, Florence and the Machine, Regina Spektor, Ani DiFranco, Elliot Smith, The Postal Service, Vienna Teng, Death Cab for Cutie, Radiohead, Of Monsters and Men, Neutral Milk Hotel, Andrew Bird, The Decemberists, Metric, Lady GaGa, The National, Vampire Weekend, Mumford and Sons, The Weakerthans...

(foods) I am a big, big fan of kale soup and warm Portuguese rolls with butter. Heritage food, represent! I also love lasagna, pasta salad, chocolate in all incarnations, chicken marsala with rice pilaf... my mother is a wonderful cook and I'll shoot anyone who says otherwise. I have a love affair with Indian food. Chicken tikka masala and veggie samosas are like crack to me. I also looooove fruit-- clementines, pomegranates, Fuji apples, green grapes, all sorts of berries...

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) a night sky dark enough to see the stars
2) my computer-- and a power source-- or my Droid will do in a pinch, with headphones so I don't bother other people when I want to listen to music
3) real paper books, because e-reading just isn't as good as holding an actual book in my hands
4) chocolate or chai or coffee or black tea, something delicious and caffeinated
5) someone to talk to (my cat counts)
6) pillows. lots of pillows.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
nothing. I've been trying to cultivate a state of mind in which I don't worry about anything, and it's kind of nice to stop thinking every now and then. It's hard as hell to do, though. I worry a lot, and shutting that off is a task and a half.

And I daydream ALL THE TIME. I spend a lot of time daydreaming about the way I want things to happen, or the way something that did happen could have gone, or what might happen if something completely unlikely occurred.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Back when I was at college, my answer was roleplaying, but now that I'm away from that social group, my honest answer is more like "catching up on my TV shows" or "reading fanfiction."
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I write, and a lot of the time when I look like I'm deep in thought, I'm just thinking about something I want to write. (Or daydreaming. I do that almost constantly.) And I don't know how to drive.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
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you can deal with my absent-minded, sometimes single-minded self. You want to talk philosophy, religion or politics. (Discuss. Not argue.) You want to share awesome recipes. Or if you have something to say to me. :)