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25 Portland, OR Non-binary


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:03pm
Strictly anything
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Has cats
English, Russian, German, Spanish
My self-summary
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little bear//real-tree royalty//anarcho-recreationalist.

non-binary, they/them.

I like bikes, writing, independent publishing, playing music on the computer and in real life, zines, books, traveling, and nature. I enjoy taking care of a variety of plants and gardening. When I get sad I buy a houseplant.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am mostly centered around creative projects. I make music, mostly beats and electronic-based stuff. I spend lots of time absorbing hours of music. a good date is crate digging.

I write poetry and am finishing a certificate in independent publishing.

telling strangers my deepest secrets.

not keeping many secrets.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
whistling and keeping it cool when I'm on hallucinogens in public.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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music: hip-hop, emo, electronic, punk. drake. closeted electronic music fan in the punk scene.

I like reading books and zines from various small presses. I enjoy reading about the occult/witchcraft/etc.


burritos. sushi. comfort food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
sounds. brains. plants. gender. social work. dark things as jokes. the punk house I live in. my adorable housemates. ghosts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
wait... what day is today?
You should message me if
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you want to

hang out and have it be like a no-pressure job interview to smooch.

enjoy the sights and smells of the woods

play music

write poems


I'm in a long distance poly relationship, so my emotional attention is generally limited. I really like making friends and I really like kissing cuties and am comfortable being up front about how I feel one way or the other.

another note:

I am polyamorous. I am generally not interested in being someone's first experience in non-monogamy. I'm always down to meet new friends, but I've had a difficult time trying to romantically date someone who's not at least interested in non-monogamy.