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spencertb

26 New York, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–27
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:03pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Sign
Libra
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Status
Single
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm all about balance and moderation - I try to balance being silly, carefree, and fun with also being responsible and serious when need be. I am adventurous but cautious, outgoing but shy, hard-working but lazy, confident but grateful. I like to stay very open to life experiences and will try just about anything once.

I want to find someone who is the right balance of wild and crazy but also rational and reliable. I want someone smart but not pompous, spontaneous and adventurous but not reckless, someone social and outgoing but not against spending a night in relaxing, someone who will pull me out of my comfort zone and lead me to new and interesting life experiences, but who also appreciates the tried and true comforts of life. I want to be the rock to someone’s whirlwind. I want someone who’s nervous about settling down but not afraid of it. I don’t want a relationship where we merge our lives completely - I am my own person and I want someone who is passionate about their life and interests outside of their relationship, but also loves sharing her favorite parts with a partner who will appreciate them.

Oh, also I'm a feminist. I didn't think that needed to be on here explicitly because I thought it would be assumed but apparently it's become trendy to not identify with that word, which to me just seems silly.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working (I'm a software engineer), hanging out with friends pretty much whenever I'm not working. My friends are by far the most important part of my life.

I love activities! Skiing, snowboarding, rock climbing, scuba diving, ski diving, going to the beach, going to see a play, etc. Plus I'm sure there are countless more I will love once I try them! Always open to trying something new.

I love meeting new people and going on spontaneous adventures.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Flailing. Being a muppet. Climbing onto roofs. Shenanigans.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love movies that make you think or have a twist at the end.

I'm also into theater and love going to shows, though I don't do it nearly as often as I'd like to. If you can recommend some good shows for me to see, let me know!

And now, some lists.

Favorite movies:
The Matrix, The Prestige, Primer, Back to the Future, Brick, The Boondock Saints, The Protector, Princess Mononoke, Scott Pilgrim vs the World, The 40 Year Old Virgin, Pineapple express, Spaceballs, Half Baked

TV shows:
Dr Who, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Adventure Time, Bravest Warriors, Rick and Morty, Bojack Horseman, The IT Crowd, Community, Heroes season 1, Broad City, How I Met Your Mother, Workaholics, Firefly, 30 Rock, Arrested Development, Scrubs, 24, Full Metal Alchemist, Attack on Titan, Archer, The Venture Bros

Books:
His Dark Material Trilogy (The Golden Compass etc.), Song of Fire and Ice series (A Game of Thrones etc.), The Kingslayer Chronicles (The Name of the Wind etc.), The Wheel of Time series, The Anubis Gates, Ender's Game, Good Omens, Dune, The Giver, Sandman, Mistborn,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends
Books
A sonic screwdriver
Pluto (you'll always be a planet to me baby!)
Changing the world
Cheese
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I could have one superpower, what would it be (the current leader is teleportation, though flying and knowing every language are not far behind).
What a BAMF Tesla was: http://theoatmeal.com/comics/tesla
My friends
The nature of time / time travel
My job
If the universe is expanding, what's it expanding into/ what's beyond the edge of the universe?
Cheese
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with friends - usually either out drinking at a bar, in smoking a bowl and watching a movie, or off exploring Mars.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are enthusiastic, energetic, and love life. You have a young soul and an optimistic outlook. You take things as they come and are always open to a new experience.

You're confident but not cocky, and don't take yourself too seriously.

You're an artist who likes scientists.

You want to go see a show with me.

You're okay with keeping things casual, at least for a while, and not rushing into anything too serious.

You want to help me finally catch moose and squirrel.