I want to find someone who is the right balance of wild and crazy but also rational and reliable. I want someone smart but not pompous, spontaneous and adventurous but not reckless, someone social and outgoing but not against spending a night in relaxing, someone who will pull me out of my comfort zone and lead me to new and interesting life experiences, but who also appreciates the tried and true comforts of life. I want to be the rock to someone’s whirlwind. I want someone who’s nervous about settling down but not afraid of it. I don’t want a relationship where we merge our lives completely - I am my own person and I want someone who is passionate about their life and interests outside of their relationship, but also loves sharing her favorite parts with a partner who will appreciate them.
Oh, also I'm a feminist. I didn't think that needed to be on here explicitly because I thought it would be assumed but apparently it's become trendy to not identify with that word, which to me just seems silly.