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spewben

26 / M / straight / Single

Takoma Park, Maryland

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Black
Height
6' 4" (1.93m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am Goofy, easy going, and strong willed.

My Self-Summary

I'm a firefighter born and bred in Maryland. I love my family, my friends, job, life, sports, traveling and crown royal. I been bit by the travel bug the past few years and i am borderline addicted to it. Im a sports fanatic, Redskins, Celtics, Orioles, Capitals and Barca are my teams. I love animals, but I dont have any pets. I love hanging out shoting the breeze, listening to good music while sipping on some crown. Never been in love but im willing to give it a try.

What I’m doing with my life

I have already achieved my childhood goal of becoming a firefighter. Im working toward securing a stable retirement so I can travel, help the poor, live abroad or whatever else I feel like doing when Im done working. For now Im trying to become a paramedic, meet new people and travel.

I’m really good at

Getting along with people and making lifelong friends. Fighting fire. Being respectful and understanding. Keeping my cool. Playing basketball and hurting my back. Having good taste in music. Staying out trouble. Cooking

The first things people usually notice about me

Im tall or my hair

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books- The bible, where the sidewalk ends, King Leopolds ghost and the Odyssey.

Movies- Above the Rim, Major Payne, Heat, Casino, 40 Year Old Virgin, Batman, Batman Begins, Batman Returns, the Bourne series, Rocky Movies (except for Rocky 4), Dont Mess with the Zohan, Kill Bill, Pulp Fiction, Natural Born Killers, Ingloryous Bastards, Falling Down, Training Day, Enter the Dragon and the Fifth Element.

TV- The Office, Parks and Recreation, Martin, 60 Minutes, Sportscenter, Entourage, Curb Your Enthusiaism, Weeds, Hung, Dexter, Ultimate Fighter, 30 Rock, Cops, Jepardy, Around the Horn, Pardon the Interruption, True Life, Sopranos, The Wire, Family Guy, Simpsons, Oz, The Shield, etc

Music- Ghostface Killah, Snoop, Dr Dre, Wu-tang Clan, EPMD, KRS-One, Redman, Outkast, Nas (OLD SCHOOL Nas), Devin "The Dude", Scarface, LL Cool J, Canibus, Big L, Mariah Carey, Whitney Houston, En Vogue, Mary J. Blidge, SWV, Michael Jackson, Al Green, Maxwell, Lenny Kravitz, Stevie Wonder, Prince, Erykah Badu, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Janes Addiction, Chick Chick Chick, The Advantage, Buju Banton, Bob Marley, Bounty Killa, Red Rat, Shabba Ranks, Wayne Wonder, Beannie Man, Elephant Man, Sean Paul, Old country music and Charlie Daniels, etc

The six things I could never do without

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Life, the future, my next trip. What can I can do to grow as a person. Think about the past and how not to repeat some mistakes. How my family and friends are doing. Make good song I havent heard in while.

On a typical Friday night I am

Watching a movie, getting a drink and hanging out with some close knit friends. Or Im on the beatin path, taking people the hospital, pulling someone out of wrecked car or putting out a fire, typically stuff.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I cried at the end of My girl when i was a kid, after Macaulay Calkin's funeral. It was the part when her moon ring changed from black to blue, beacuse she was happy that he told his mom something good about her and his mom told it to her, I think? Also when Mufasa died and Simba was trying to wake him up, but he couldnt.

You should message me if

You're trying to hangout or get to know me. I can be an interesting guy sometimes and maybe even charming, from time to time.