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31 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
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Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Catalan (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am back on OKC after a year off. I decided it would be a good time to go on here again since my life just got back on track. Now, I'm just hoping to meet a special guy to share it all with.

I'm a bit of a hybrid. My dad is from Spain and my mom from Costa Rica, so right off the bat I was one of those mixed kids that always wonders where he's really from. I grew up experiencing different cultures and in a very international atmosphere. I am glad I had that experience because I got the chance to live in several countries and in different regions of the US. It also gave me the opportunity to learn different languages and travel, my two passions.

I went to Northwestern University near Chicago for undergrad and got a BA in economics and history. I also studied a year abroad at the London School of Economics. After that, I was a traveling consultant for 4 years, until I realized that I wanted to change my life and do something that helps people. So, I decided to go to law school and become an immigration lawyer. I packed up my bags and my furniture and moved to NYC to go to Cardozo Law School.

Right now I work at a non-profit immigration legal services office in Brooklyn and live in Hamilton Heights, Harlem. I really love what I do and enjoy the challenges I face every day and the things I learn from every client.

I am very fortunate to have wonderful people in my life. I would like to add a special guy to that circle, and hope that I'll meet him, either here or through other channels.
What I’m doing with my life
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Non-profit immigration attorney
I’m really good at
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Learning languages and persuasion.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes and my eyelashes. My first day of law school a classmate asked me if I wear mascara. I do not. :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: L'Església del Mar, Cien Años de Soledad, Memorias de Mis Putas Tristes, Une Femme de Ménage, The Brothers Karamazov, Anna Karennina, Crime and Punishment, Night Train to Lisbon, and the whole Tintin series.

Movies: Almodóvar films


Food: Indian, Mexican, Thai
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My MacBook Pro
2. My passport(s)
3. Toiletries (Body wash/toothpaste/toothbrush)
4. Cheese
5. Flaixfm (
6. Sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
(1) The future.

(2) Where all the attractive, single, smart, mature, interesting, gay men of New York went.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with my friends or watching a movie in bed.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm an open book, so if you ask me anything I will answer. There is nothing too private.

I think that a good relationship is one where both parties are intellectually and sexually satisfied. I am a top, but I think that with the right guy, I could explore being versatile.

I like redheads and blonds. I get a lot of crap for that, but I can't help what gets me going! That doesn't mean I don't go for other guys, though.
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