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sphillipsdesign

45 M Cumberland, RI

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:37pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, and might want more
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I have decided that I have missed out on to many things in my life, so let it be known that I am seeking a partner that will help me explore the world and everything it has to offer. I want to travel and see the places I've dreamed about or seen in documentaries. On the wish list: Europe (especially Scotland and Greece), any tropical island and many places in the US that I have yet to explore. Also willing to take suggestions so let me have them.

I'm not someone who can be summed up easily and I am looking for someone who like me can't fit all of who they are in a dixie cup of an online profile. All of my friends (yes even the married female ones) say that I am a "good" guy. I know kiss of death. I guess I am, but I know myself and that is hardly the catch all description of me. Below you will find some things that scratch the surface of who I am. I do know that I am ready to share the real me with someone. I don't need that but I'm at a place where I would like to have someone who will listen to what I have to say from my heart (there is a lot there that needs to be expressed more often) and wants to tell me all about themselves. I can smile (unlike my photos, not a camera person unless I'm behind it) and I do it a lot and would like to share that with someone special.

Easy going, quiet guy unless I'm amongst friends. I look at life as a precious commodity and try to take advantage of every day that I have, to the best of my ability. I should also mention that I love football and I'm a big Patriots fan, love going to games and cheering for my team. I'm also a writer, mainly to help myself relax. I've written three novels but never let anyone read them, maybe you'll be the first. I am also an artist and have been enjoying rediscovering my creativity. I also enjoy video games, going to museums and exploring new places.

I'm an honest and slightly shy guy that often gets the "he's nice" monicker but it is usually that no one takes the time to get to know me. I am a deep thinker and contemplate life and it's ups and downs often. I try to live a good life and want to leave a lasting legacy in the world. I've spent most of my life in one relationship that I thought would last forever, I guess I'm just a dreamer that way.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm at a crossroads in my life. Divorced after a long marriage, trying to find where I fit in the world. I know who I am but I also know that I want to discover more about myself and the world around me. I have started drawing again for the first time in about ten years. I had forgotten how much I enjoy it and how relaxing it can be. I have starting training at a CrossFit gym and it has been an awesome experience and is helping me recover from a small cancer scare that has changed my outlook on life. If you don't know what CrossFit is ask, I'll be happy to tell you about it.
I’m really good at
Computers, raising my kids and making people laugh. Well at least trying to make them laugh. I'm also very good at listening, I have to be in my job.
The first things people usually notice about me
I really have no idea. My glasses maybe, my smile when I have one. You'll have to let me know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies and TV: I pretty much like them all as long as they are well written and acted, or are so bad that we belly laugh at them. Science fiction and fantasy, Star wars, Game of Thrones, Dexter, Arrow, any super hero movie, Wilfred (so funny), Archer (so funny) and documentaries about science and the unexplainable. I have very diverse taste in movies and TV but I find I hardly have the time to watch more than a few shows.

Reading: I read all the time, at least as much as my schedule allows. My favorite authors are Neil Gaiman, J.R.R. Tolkien (the master), Jim Butcher and of course all my fellow writers (Tee Morris, Pip Ballantine, Mur Lafferty and my other friends who are great) but the list goes on and on. I read very much in my spare time. I also collect and read comics and I'm getting back into the hobby. Going to start the Game of Thrones books soon.

Music: I have wide a varied taste. I find that heavy rap, some electronica and country would be my least favorite. I will listen to almost anything.

Bonus if you like the book/movie Stardust, can quote Monty Python or the Princess Bride. I know I'm a geek but somethings are just awesome and those are just a few of them.

Bonus, Bonus: If you enjoy Comics, Conventions and Cosplaying you earn major points with me.
The six things I could never do without
Other than my kids, good conversation and company, the outdoors, my iPhone and traveling, there is very little that I can't live without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life and why we were put on this world. Where do we all fit and what is our greater purpose. I also love nature and enjoy just walking and contemplating the beauty of the world around us. Lately I have been reading about Buddhism and Philosophy trying to make myself a better person and expand my horizons.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm reading, drawing or working. Out at the movies with friends or just enjoying a good conversation with good company and good wine or beer. Mostly my Fridays have been me time, unless I have my kids that week then it is family time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an open person feel free to ask. I don't keep secrets. i'm not putting it in print on the inter webs though.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you're fun, like to laugh and enjoy your free time, with or without a partner. If anything aboute sounds interesting and you'd like to know more. Or just because, I like receiving email as much as the next person.

If I have favorited you feel free to write. I feel we have something in common and can at least be friends maybe more.

Bonus points if you like Sci Fi/Fantasy, have ever played D&D, like to cuddle and watch Doctor Who, or you enjoy bike riding through the country, especially in the fall ( my favorite time of year ). If you enjoy art (don't have to be an artist but at least appreciate creative time spent on it) or sports (long time Patriots fan and I've had season tickets for 20 years).

Take a chance, I won't bite unless you ask me to, and you never know what you may find out if you say hi.