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sphinxatl

42 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like men
  • Ages 26–45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:25am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Technology
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Hello and welcome to my profile.

It's ironic how you endlessly write about yourself in hopes that someone will ping you so that you can go dive into their profile and find out if they are the one, or the few, or the many, er f*ck spock. ;-)

What you will find within is a slightly quirky, generous soul, with a drive and passion to get to his goals. Though I look many years younger then my age, I have the experience and wisdom to not make the same mistakes I made before, I can make new ones! I enjoy laughing and having those around me enjoy the moment. Everyone works so hard, when you have moments to share together why not make the most of them?

I'm sharp-witted, and wicked quick, yet not cruelly-so. I'm genuinely interested in hearing other peoples stories and life experiences and how it has shaped them.

I enjoy great dinners and creating experiences to go with them. I love spending time with friends and family and am very thankful for those special moments I'm given. I enjoy travel, seeing new places, space and the cosmos, all things techy and I am a gamer at heart. I'm successful, very independent, and quite active, but love a good night at home. I'm a voracious reader and consumer of info on the Internet and love to see what's coming next.

I hope to find someone that is looking for someone to care for but also challenge them from time to time. Someone who will always be mindful of their views but expects the same in return. Someone who can be spontaneous and fun and still remark at the wonder around them. Someone who firmly lives in the present but isn't afraid to dream while knowing it is you who make your dreams come true. If this just so happens to be you, for gosh shake please ping now! Think of the children.....THE CHILDREN.........ONE PING ONLY. :D
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am now beginning a new work chapter a little unexpectedly, but exciting none the less. I work in IT / Sales / Consulting around companies moving their IT operations to the cloud, more specifically Amazon, its a really exciting space and I learn so much every day, plus it lets me stretch my knowledge, always a good thing.

On my entrepreneur side I am plotting my next great software product to make real the potential from my first couple of tries. Its such an amazing time of innovation and I feel I know the right people and the ideas flow freely. Its a fun way to imagine a future where something you build can change lives or create enjoyment. They are my hobbies and side projects.

On the social side, I came back to what is now the EDM music scene after almost a decade or more to discover a whole new world. I've been to 4 festivals in the past year and I must say 3 have been exceptional life experiences and 1 has simple been good, that's pretty awesome in my book. :-) The only thing that would make it better would be to have someone to dance with, move with, and share an incredible night together lost in the music and the stars. Know anyone that might like that?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being able to translate and empathize with people from many different walks of life. It really aids me in the professional technical world in that I can take very complex topics and put them more into a frame of context that the intended audience would understand. I'm also really good at creating systems around complex problems, I enjoy being challenged. I'm constantly learning, I'm awesome at researching things and educating myself.

On the social side, I'm really good at accepting people for who they are and not trying to make them into something they aren't. I appreciate that everyone has something unique to bring to this world and their own story. I try to treat others as I would be treated.

I'm very fun to be around and out with, I get a kick out of seeing other people happy while I'm enjoying myself. I'm very quick on my feet. I'm responsible. I'm good at standing up for myself and being self-reliant, sometimes a little too much. I'm a great and loyal friend, sensuous and creative lover, and always looks to carry my fair share in a relationship.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Hmmmm....lets see probably my personality, its definitely a defining characteristic. My interest in topics I really care about. My empathy and ability to listen...I learn so much by listening but my personality will want to jump in a make a crack or be playful, its a constant battle.

My youthful continence, also my blue eyes, full mane of hair that can go crazy directions when I've been out at a music festival a few days. My pale skin and the first of the many contrasts you'll more then likely encounter in a good way.

My kind demeanor, infectious laugh, respectfulness and outward manners to others of all walks of life, deep intellect, perhaps that last one knowing a little too much about too many things. ;-) How I can affect a child-like wonder at natures beauty and at the simple pleasures of life.

Overall my optimism, energy, passion and persistence with which I approach life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Everything Store, Think and Grow Rich, Anything by Kate Elliot, Brandon Sanderson, Raymond Feist.

I read tons of blogs to keep up with the world around me. Not huge into social networks beyond family.

Heroes: Elon Musk, Sergey Brin and Larry Page, Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, Steve Jobs.

Movies: Most Marvel / DC Flicks, Sci Fi Workowski Brothers, Good Documentaries, Like Comedies, but not a huge fan of horror or really slow dramas.

Shows: Sleepy Hollow, Agents of Shield, Through the Wormhole, Supernatural, Arrow, Flash, Mom, Big Bang Theory, Brooklyn 99, Person of Interest, Doctor Who, Family Guy, Any Comic Animation, Anime Attack on Titan, Space Battleship Yamato, Robotech, The Millers, Nova, Cosmos, NPR, The Universe, Press Pool @ Potus.

Music: Big EDM fan, have 40+ Podcasts I follow tend more towards big festival vocals or some dirty trap, or something mixed all together. Present faves: Above & Beyond, Diplo, Skrillex, Armin Van Buuren, Hardwell, Alesso, Steve Aoki, Solarstone, Gareth Emery, Sander Van Doorn, Calvin Harris, Paper Diamond, Pretty Lights, Adventure Club, DJ Snake, Bassnectar to name a few, lol.

Anyone going to Bonnaroo, Paradiso, or TomorrowWorld?

Food: Always enjoy a new place with good food. Been a big fan of No Reservations forever so really opening my mind to new cultures. Big Sushi fan, branching out into Korean, Vietnamese. I enjoy cooking. I make some amazing Spaghetti Sauce from scratch and am also known for my Shrimp and Crawfish Creole. Can't forget I'm a southern boy so meat and 3 does have meaning.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. the love of my family
2. the beat that resonates inside me
3. access to the internet and the wealth of knowledge it contains
4. companionship in my life
5. freedom to innovate
6. the wonders of finely prepared meals and good company to share it with
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How fast I seem to move through this ever more connected world yet sometimes I feel the struggle to keep up with its speed of change. Its both exciting and a little scary at the same time.

I see the amazing way that gay people like me are becoming more accepted in this world and I begin to know more hope. As I begin to know more hope, I hunger for the same freedoms that are granted every other citizen of this amazing country.

My life and horizons feel more open then at many times of my younger years. I am excited about the future.

To balance my hope and optimism is the practicality of the need to be better prepared for the opportunities in front of me.Working to manage resources careful and not taking foolish risks.

Finally, never forgetting no matter the speed of your life that your families and friends are the core of your heart and soul.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Plotting my takeover of the world.....be it some pc or console gaming, researching my startup company's mobile app, or thinking about the new characters and world I'm creating to set the cosmos bending story in that I will someday write.

I enjoy an awesome dinner experience or some great sushi. Love those unexpected moments when your enjoying a evening in some unexpected way. My outlook is you never know where your next adventure might begin.

On occasion, when I have the time to see a EDM act / dj act that I really enjoy, there is simply nothing better then that feeling when the music fills you and then I dance till the wee hours and remember in that moment I am still young.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It's been quite sometime since I seriously dated someone. It would be really nice to get to know and discover someone new along with all their life adventures.

What do you have to share? :-)
You should message me if
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You see something you like in this profile. You think we would click or make great friends based on our shared interests, or you have the secrets to the universe. :D

Or if you feel the need to PING, really its ok, Ok Cupid is a ping-friendly place, just relax and let yourself PING! If you eat a piece of Kale while pinging, its guaranteed healthy!