Simple things, family and day-by-day life are important for me - I look for emotions, yes, but emotions that may last.
Maybe this is a bit weird to say at 43, but from many points of view I am slowly discovering myself and the world around me; I have learnt that looking in only one direction is more than bad, it is pernicious ;-).
I am pretty good with words, and through experience I have learnt that this is not always good for me as it can help to hide things - it takes an effort to strip words out of things, but I'm learning. I am at any rate quite direct and straightforward, but I pay attention and use the right words when I say things.
I am looking for someone who is calm and relaxed in general, and also challenging on important things.