That being said, OnyxShadow and I are open to, and actively looking for, connections with like-minded women and/or couples. We are both very community-minded, and we are dating with the intention of finding someone(s) with whom we can share a long-term relationship. Family is very important to both of us. <3
I had previously been in a polyamorous relationship for 12 years. Our paths diverged, but he is still one of my best friends.
I like to meet new people. I love music - the variety, the way it moves me, makes me feel so many things.
I love going to new places, whether flying or driving. I would like to explore more....
I love to paint, draw, read and write.
I love to sing! I don't think I have the greatest voice, but I think I sound pretty good. I just really love singing, and I'm usually singing throughout the day - especially at work!
I disabled my OKCupid account previously because I was getting a lot of messages from people who misinterpreted what I said, or made assumptions about who I am and what I would be open to. If you have questions, ask them. I can promise nothing but to answer honestly.
I am compassionate, creative, and loving
No, that does not mean I am unrealistic. I prefer to see the world in the light, and I have faith that we create the world we choose to live in.
They probably notice that I tend to be very busy, sing to myself (and to the individuals I've worked with), and that I'm smiling most of the time. :)
Movies - Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, The Last Temptation of Christ...The Hobbit, The Lord of the Rings trilogy....
Music - The Red Hot Chili Peppers! Kula Shaker...Blackmore's Night...Frank Turner...so many....
Foods - Mexican, Italian, sushi, chocolate, hummus (my own, homemade)....
I, like everyone, am a work in progress. And I just keep moving, improving, improvising and creating. :)
I love hiking and exploring new places. Part of me wants to be a nomad, I think, but I haven't given into that....yet. ;)