Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
While I occasionally enjoy having casual sex with straight men, I
have absolutely no trouble finding them when it is convenient for
me. I have no interest in pursuing any sort of emotional
relationship with straight men. If you identify as straight, please
do not contact me. If I happen to contact you, consider yourself
I am tiny and queer. I try very hard to make other people happy
while keeping myself sane. I appreciate others who can do the
I have small hands and I like using them. I paint and and I code
and I fuck with them.
My partner is sendingsignal and we have a joint profile
What I’m doing with my life
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Traveling, building a better family for myself, being a little cute
and loving lots of people. My heart keeps overflowing.
I enjoy being around people who are constantly learning from their
experiences and always striving to be kinder and more efficient. I
don't really care about obeying social norms; I care more about
making sure life is more pleasant for the people I am surrounded
I drink lots of tea and I'm starting to grow more plants.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people feel cared for, being dumb, listening, sexy stuff,
rubbing my butt all over everyone, being so cute, etc
The first things people usually notice about me
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Generally my face, unless I'm wearing a low cut shirt, in which
case boobs. Or I could be yelling something inappropriate very
loudly by accident.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like a lot of stuff, feminist sci-fi, magical realism, children's
fantasy with strong female/queer protagonists, I'm trying to read
fewer books written by old white men and I love suggestions. I like
to eat good food. I've been trying to eat more veggies. I love
cooking for people! My partner has been getting me to watch more
movies and television shows. I like books that have weird plots
that don't make too much sense. I like talking to people about
their lives because they are like little novels too.
I like Imogen Heap and Angel Haze and songs with subtle(!) literary
references and many layers of melody.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How much I love my beb, I cry a lot, I used to cry at least once a
day. I think about people I have crushes on and blush on public
transportation. I think about grocery lists if my mind wanders
while fucking, occasionally.
I have Aspergers, so I tend to become extremely obsessed with
In the past, these subjects have been:
- Fashion (construction, not history)
- Quantum physics
- German Expressionism
- Imogen Heap
- The English language
- Art Nouveau
- Social interactions
- Madeline L'Engle
- Being gay
- Gayle Rubin
I'm currently obsessed with sex.
Topics I can talk your ear off about but haven't been fully
immersed in are chemistry, fractals, makeup, Chinese, making mac n
whole bunch of other stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Answering work emails, dancing, kissing, cuddling, watching anime
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a hard time getting along with people who I don't respect on
an intellectual and aesthetic level, which I am trying to work on.
There's so many wonderful people I am missing out on connecting
You should message me if
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I really want buddies to go out dancing with so if you like
wiggling with other people let me know if there's any cute parties
You like being friends! I love friends. I don't need to have sex
with everyone I care for, if you're asexual, you should know that
I'm totally cool with dating you too.
If you're okay with me having a partner. You don't have to do
anything with them (unless you want to!), but I'm really not
interested in leaving them ever.
You are okay with me getting distracted and not texting you for a
bit - it doesn't mean I dislike you, I just have a lot of stuff
You won't be whorephobic to my friends who are porn stars/pro
dommes/pro subs/escorts/strippers/cam girls/boys OR ableist to my
friends who are mentally/physically differently abled OR racist OR
transphobic OR homophobic or just the type of person who mocks
people about things they may be sensitive about.
You're okay with initiating plans with me (inviting me over,
planning dates/hangouts) that is awesome because I often forget to
hangout with people I want to hang out with.
If you can listen to my limits and boundaries and not push me even
if you think I should be pushed. I guess this is kinda basic but
If you're interested in me as a sexual partner and are okay with me
being more of a top - if you're looking for a pillow princess, I'm
not for you! If you are a cis dude this is multiplied x2!!
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