I am tiny and queer. I try very hard to make other people happy while keeping myself sane. I appreciate others who can do the same.
I have small hands and I like using them. I paint and and I code and I fuck with them.
My partner is sendingsignal and we have a joint profile spiffehsignal.
I enjoy being around people who are constantly learning from their experiences and always striving to be kinder and more efficient. I don't really care about obeying social norms; I care more about making sure life is more pleasant for the people I am surrounded by.
I drink lots of tea and I'm starting to grow more plants.
I like Imogen Heap and Angel Haze and songs with subtle(!) literary references and many layers of melody.
I have Aspergers, so I tend to become extremely obsessed with certain subjects.
In the past, these subjects have been:
- Fashion (construction, not history)
- Quantum physics
- German Expressionism
- Imogen Heap
- The English language
- Art Nouveau
- Social interactions
- Madeline L'Engle
- Being gay
- Gayle Rubin
I'm currently obsessed with sex.
You like being friends! I love friends. I don't need to have sex with everyone I care for, if you're asexual, you should know that I'm totally cool with dating you too.
If you're okay with me having a partner. You don't have to do anything with them (unless you want to!), but I'm really not interested in leaving them ever.
You are okay with me getting distracted and not texting you for a bit - it doesn't mean I dislike you, I just have a lot of stuff going on.
You won't be whorephobic to my friends who are porn stars/pro dommes/pro subs/escorts/strippers/cam girls/boys OR ableist to my friends who are mentally/physically differently abled OR racist OR transphobic OR homophobic or just the type of person who mocks people about things they may be sensitive about.
You're okay with initiating plans with me (inviting me over, planning dates/hangouts) that is awesome because I often forget to hangout with people I want to hang out with.
If you can listen to my limits and boundaries and not push me even if you think I should be pushed. I guess this is kinda basic but w/e.
If you're interested in me as a sexual partner and are okay with me being more of a top - if you're looking for a pillow princess, I'm not for you! If you are a cis dude this is multiplied x2!!