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spin14

37 M Concord, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:34am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Two-year college
Job
Transportation
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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9 years ago I decided LA was no longer the place for me after spending a year overseas. I chose the bay because of family (6 aunts & uncles, 18 cousins which as they get older that number continues to grow). It was definitely a good decision though you'll never get me to root for the Giants or 49ers (but I'll still watch them).

I prefer small groups over large ones. One on one with the right person can far more interesting than a big party. I apparently contradict myself now and then. One thing I know for sure is I have empathy and always try to see other peoples point of view.

My interests are wide ranging from sports to the arts to science, and I'm always looking for a new perspective on things I already enjoy. It is also a plus to learn about something I know nothing about (big turn on). I like my job, I like where I live, and in general I like my life. I'm just looking for someone to share it with. Interested?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Consistently trying to be a better person.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, learning, being a good companion/friend/partner, and going with the flow.
Barbequing, I used to be good at volleyball and basketball but haven't played in a while (always up for a pickup game though), video games (PS3, smart phone), and cards.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors Michael Crichton, Dan Brown, Michael Byrnes.

TV: Newsroom, True Blood, Person of Interest, Revenge, Big Bang Theory, Lost Girl, Covert Affairs, Daily Show, Charlie Rose.

Music... Very Eclectic. Just about every genre from classical (Mozart), to Hip-Hop (Ludacris), to rock (Metallica), to R&B (Usher/Rihanna), classic rock (Beatles), etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The internet
Dessert (at least once in a while)
Car = Freedom
My phone
Someone interesting to talk/listen to
A shower
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working. But Saturday night I can be found enjoying a concert or anywhere with music. Live sporting events are preferred but if my favorite teams are on, any TV/Radio will do. I enjoy a variety of games: darts, poker, pool, video, board etc. Spending time with those I care about is #1.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
in person. You can ask me when we meet.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You believe in the phrase "friends first". I know that is counter to typical male thinking but it is what works for me in finding a lasting relationship. If hiking, concerts, sporting events, while winding down with a DVD and dinner appeals to you send me a note.