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37 M Concord, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:48am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
9 years ago I decided LA was no longer the place for me after spending a year overseas. I chose the bay because of family (6 aunts & uncles, 18 cousins which as they get older that number continues to grow). It was definitely a good decision though you'll never get me to root for the Giants or 49ers (but I'll still watch them).

I prefer small groups over large ones. One on one with the right person can far more interesting than a big party. I apparently contradict myself now and then. One thing I know for sure is I have empathy and always try to see other peoples point of view.

My interests are wide ranging from sports to the arts to science, and I'm always looking for a new perspective on things I already enjoy. It is also a plus to learn about something I know nothing about (big turn on). I like my job, I like where I live, and in general I like my life. I'm just looking for someone to share it with. Interested?
What I’m doing with my life
Consistently trying to be a better person.
I’m really good at
Listening, learning, being a good companion/friend/partner, and going with the flow.
Barbequing, I used to be good at volleyball and basketball but haven't played in a while (always up for a pickup game though), video games (PS3, smart phone), and cards.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors Michael Crichton, Dan Brown, Michael Byrnes.

TV: Newsroom, True Blood, Person of Interest, Revenge, Big Bang Theory, Lost Girl, Covert Affairs, Daily Show, Charlie Rose.

Music... Very Eclectic. Just about every genre from classical (Mozart), to Hip-Hop (Ludacris), to rock (Metallica), to R&B (Usher/Rihanna), classic rock (Beatles), etc.
The six things I could never do without
The internet
Dessert (at least once in a while)
Car = Freedom
My phone
Someone interesting to talk/listen to
A shower
On a typical Friday night I am
Working. But Saturday night I can be found enjoying a concert or anywhere with music. Live sporting events are preferred but if my favorite teams are on, any TV/Radio will do. I enjoy a variety of games: darts, poker, pool, video, board etc. Spending time with those I care about is #1.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
in person. You can ask me when we meet.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You believe in the phrase "friends first". I know that is counter to typical male thinking but it is what works for me in finding a lasting relationship. If hiking, concerts, sporting events, while winding down with a DVD and dinner appeals to you send me a note.