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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Sep 27, 2013
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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"To be or not to be - that's not a question" - Godard

I've been in New York for ten years and in Brooklyn for three. Originally from Minneapolis (but not generally accused of having Midwestern sensibilities). Lover of Brooklyn, but hopefully not in the cliche'd way.

I like film, sarcasm and (inappropriate) humor, greenmarkets, authentic restaurants and bars with character.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to manage the contradictions.

I work in finance. I had planned to be a professor (humanities). I ended up analyzing companies in mergers. Sometimes you eat the bar, sometimes the bar eats you.

Trying to decorate my new apartment. A seemingly never-ending task.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Conversations about the abstract
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Fiction: The Trial, Heart of Darkness, Black Spring, anything by Edgar Allen Poe. Recently - The Savage Detectives, Blood Meridian

Nonfiction: The Four Fundamental Concepts of Psychoanalysis, The Savage Anomaly, Architecture as Metaphor.

Movies: High and Low, Inglourious Basterds, Johnny Guitar, Tristam Shandy: a Cock and Bull Story, Repulsion, True Grit, Two or Three Things I Know About Her, The Passenger, The Man with the Movie Camera, Inland Empire, Rumble Fish, anything Kubrick or Hitchcock.

Music: Massive Attack, Nashville Skyline, Sharon Jones, Budos Band, Yo La Tengo, Neil Young, The Black Keys, Charles Mingus, Thelonious Monk, Godspeed: you Black Emperor

Food: I'll eat (and have eaten) most anything. All-time favorites include Spicy Chicken with Chili Chili Chili at Szechuan Gourmet, Dark Beef Tendon Soup at Sripraphai, pizza at Di Fara, dry hummus at Tanoreen, lunch at The Grocery. Best meal I've had in New York: Kebab Cafe.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Rye whiskey, Blue Bottle coffee (the original in Hayes Valley), my brothers, a decent stereo, film, humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Structural inequalities
Immanent causality
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a neighborhood bar
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'n not on Facebook
You should message me if
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You are strong willed, opinionated, sarcastic, funny, or generally awesome.

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