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51 M Los Angeles, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 44–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:52am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Other (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I like to think of myself as more:

William Powell than Matt Damon
Charles Eames than Philip Stark
Mark Hollis than Tommy Lee

The parents of any girlfriend I've ever had have just loved me. And you know if I was a woman, I wouldn't mind calling me a partner.

Oh, and per some test on here, I am a Deliberate Gentle Love Master (DGLM). Now what the hell is that?
What I’m doing with my life
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Former drummer (played SXSW a couple of times) and now a lover of photography (everything from architecture to William Eggleston.) I enjoy good design + mid-century furniture + danish influence + where form and function meet.

Feel free to check out my photography at

I've also recently become somewhat obsessed with collecting art. Herb Vogel here looking for his Dorothy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Scrapbooking, making friendship bracelets and bedazzling t-shirts.

If you've got something broken, I probably can fix it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm really not the noticeable type.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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On the music front: Talk Talk, Mark Hollis, Laurie Anderson, The Beatles, Besnard Lakes, Bill Bruford, Brian Eno, Pedro the Lion, Bowie, David Sylvan, Dead Can Dance, Elliot Smith, Ida, Low, The Jam, Jellyfish, Glenn Gould, Nina Nastasia, Sparklehorse, Tons of 40's, 50's and 60's Jazz, Old School Country Western/Swing, etc...

Although you didn't ask, favorite local artists: Mike Tracy, Dave Lefner, Scott Yeskel, Eric Nash.

More to come...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can only think of one thing off-hand and that is toilet paper. Not really interested in the alternative.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How long it will be before we Americans are sold to China as house pets. I mean really... we're interested in Honey Boo Boo, the Kardshians and a host of other completely stupid stuff.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll probably admit everything by the third date, but not here.
You should message me if
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You want to see my Eames splint.

Oh, and if you have children or want children, I'm not your guy. I love kids, I just don't have that child rearing gene.