I am smart and funny and have been told that I have a nice personality. I have had many years of therapy (completed) and continue to take self-help workshops of various types around the Bay Area. I have taken workshops most recently at the Human Awareness Institute (HAI), and have become a member of that community. I am liberal politically and very liberal socially.
I enjoy seeing plays, movies, and musicals (my daughter is a singer/actress). I also am somewhat of a foodie and love to dine in fine restaurants, although the recent economic downturn has curtailed that activity quite a bit.
I love to have intimate conversations with people I love. You will find me very much an open book. Through all my therapy, I have lost most of my defensiveness and I am very open to someone who loves me (and who I love) pointing out (in a loving and non-accusatory way) places where my remaining “baggage” has come to the fore. I believe that a large part of life is learning more about oneself and striving to become more the person that one was meant to be. And I am constantly aware of that desire to improve myself and I continue to process those times when I fall short of being the person I am working toward being.
I would very much like to find a partner with whom I would be able to share my life. I am looking for a man who would like to be a part of my family and want me to be a part of his. I would like to have a relationship where we would both be comfortable being together when we are at our best and when we are at our worst – sharing good times and bad. A relationship with mutual respect and trust. A man with whom I could laugh and with whom I could cry. A man with warmth, integrity, sense of humor, intelligence and a man who is comfortable being who he is, and who understands that no one is perfect, but that two imperfect beings can have a soul connection and a lot of fun together. Sex isn't my whole life, but it does play a very large role, so I am not interested in any men who think that sex should end at a certain age. I find sweetness and a sense of humor very sexy traits in a man. If a man is intelligent, genuine and can make me laugh, that is an incredible turn on for me. Honesty and integrity are also very important to me in a man. I don't like mind games. I would appreciate a gentleman who is also a gentle man.
I have been told that I am naturally Tantric. So, it would be nice to find someone who is at least interested in Tantra.
I am honest, intelligent, and love to laugh