I just came back to Ok Cupid after almost a year.... for several reasons I left ... Please do not contact me , if you are looking for just a hook up or 1 night stand... I am not looking for that.... I wont exchange or send you pictures that are of me less then clothed so don't ask ... and I do not date outside my ethnicity, or culture , been there done that , bad experience (no not all men are the same, but not looking to to go there again). That being said, I wish everyone the very best in all they seek.
I am very out going, but I don't put myself out there, I don't like being the center of attention. I am friendly , love people , animals. I live life for me not what the next person feels I should be doing. I am very creative, and love to do for other people. I don't have a large family, but would love to meet someone who did and were very close with. I feel family is very important part of life. I like to entertain, though I don't have the social life to do so . I want some one who wants to value me as much as I would value them, who is interested in my interest, and me with his interest, who is very impulsive with adventure and could teach me to be. I want some one who is very comfortable in a blue jean life, but occasionally likes to dress for something special. A caring person, who wants to live life and share all that he has to offer and I don't mean just material things, I mean knowledge, his life experiences, family, and wants to receive those same things in return.
I like a romantic, dinner by the fireplace, long walks on the beach at sunset, afternoon picnics by the river,or under the big oak tree. Snuggling on a rainy day with a good movie, the Sunday paper and cup of hot chocolate. I like PDA , and when it comes to attention giving, I like to give a 110% .
My friends and family would describe me as giving of myself much more than I have, sincere, big heart, friendly, out going,I like everyone (until you give me a reason not to) . Willing to try new things (just not bungee jumping) , a realist, an optimist, and not everything is as black and white as 1 might think, there are always shades of gray. And in my life the more colorful the scenery the better the journey.