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26 M Buffalo, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:26am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Catalan (Poorly), Latin (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm Scott. I'm looking to meet some open-minded, smart and adventurous people.

I'm currently trying to focus on my health, starting with quitting smoking. I have been going to the gym and eating healthy to incorporate more good habits in my life so I'll feel less anxious when I finally quit.

Art and the expression of life's greatest mysteries are my true passions. Alas, art and writing don't pay my bills at this point. I work in advertising, which allows me to work on solving problems creatively every day, writing messages to entice and inspire consumers to buy. YUM!

I have a bizarre, dark, and unpredictable sense of humor. My coworkers have told me several times that I'm like a walking eCard generator.

At least once a day, someone tells me that I look like Gary Oldman, particularly Commissioner Gordon from the Batman movies. Even more so now that I've grown a mustache. I can dig it.

I'm also a huge foodie and love to cook. Besides cruel foods like foie gras, veal, etc., I'll eat anything.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work at a local advertising agency in town. I'm a copywriter, which means that my main job is to come up with the words for advertisements. Catchy taglines, witty dialogue, plays on words and so on. I also produce and direct radio and TV commercials, helping to pick talent, coordinate editing and post-production and so on. It would be really cool if I 'fell into" film or radio production as I gain more experience. Making movies is a dream of mine.

In my spare time, my favorite thing to do is read and write. I own two typewriters because I prefer to compose fiction without the distractions of the Internet. Plus, I love banging those keys as hard as I want (they can take the abuse).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Providing insight for other people and their problems. I'm not afraid to say the tough things that people don't want but need to hear.

Making others laugh.

Cooking, making drinks, hosting guests.

Intelligent conversation and debate.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, my smile, my style, my intensity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This could get long.

Ulysses by James Joyce
Labyrinths by J.L. Borges
The Savage Detectives by Roberto Bolaño
Super Sad True Love Story by Gary Shteyngart
Naked Lunch by William S. Burroughs
The Dharma Bums by Jack Kerouac
Big Sur by Jack Kerouac
Shakespeare, particularly Titus Andronicus, Julius Caesar, Hamlet, Othello and the Scottish Play
What We Talk About When We Talk About Love by Raymond Carver
The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera

Nonfiction-I'll just list interests
Books on etiquette, particularly gentlemanly style guides
Books on feminism, anti-capitalism, critical race theory, critical pedagogy and other politico-cultural topics
Books on linguistics, philology, etymology, lexicography, handwriting analysis, basically anything to do with language
Books on modern science like string theory

Anything by Hitchcock, David Lynch, or Aronofsky
Pulp Fiction, Reservoir Dogs, Kill Bill 1 & 2, Natural Born Killers, True Romance, Cache', Before the Devil Knows You're Dead, In Bruges, You Kill Me, Breathless, Tree of Life, Boogie Nights, Easy Rider, Fear & Loathing in Las Vegas, The Libertine; The Cook, The Thief, His Wife, Her Lover (probably one of the best unknown films of all time).

Mad Men, New Girl, The Wire, Treme, Boardwalk Empire, Parks and Rec, 30 Rock, Twin Peaks. Haven't really owned a TV for years, so I watch all my shows on my computer when I want.

Extremely eclectic tastes in music. Favorite artists include:
Radiohead, Elliott Smith, Arcade Fire, Alt-J, Funkadelic, Miles Davis, John Coltrane, James Brown, Frank Sinatra, Cody ChesnuTT, Rage Against the Machine, Outkast, Johnny Cash...

My favorite genres include:
Funk/ soul
Classic Rock

Love creole cooking, soul food, sushi, Indian, and pretty much anything I can whip up at home.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) A pen and my moleskine (feel naked without)
2) Music
3) Friends and Family (cliche but I would feel guilty saying I don't need them)
4) My memories
5) My principles
6) My sense of wonder, adventure and humor
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're smart and find intelligence sexy.
An ideal date for you is fun and spontaneous. Even if it's dinner and then dancing at a strange place we've never been to's what you make of it.