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spokenbean

35 Langley, British Columbia, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:59pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a part-time bicycle mechanic and part-time aspiring art therapist. I fix and sell bikes two days a week, and the rest of the week I paint and do life. I like rock-climbing, bouldering, to be specific. I cycle when the weather cooperates. I got into tennis this past summer and I 15-love it.

I'm serious and deliberate about things that are important to me, such as self-improvement and mindfulness. I aim for what Brené Brown, one of my favourite authors, calls "wholehearted living," the willingness to be vulnerable, imperfect, gracious, and compassionate.

I read a lot. I'm fascinated with anything that has to do with the brain, from psychology to neuroplasticity to mental health. I don't have cable, but use Apple TV for Netflix, TED talks, and climbing competitions on YouTube. .
What I’m doing with my life
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Developing my artistic style before returning to school to finish my BA and become an Art Therapist, specializing in working with those who have sustained head injuries.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
things that involve attention to detail...my job...building things...active listening...making Americanos...retaining random information...helping...painting.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It used to be my right sleeve tattoo, but I recently started the left sleeve, so maybe they'll notice that one first? I've been told by some they noticed my lips first, so make of that what you will.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books:
"Enjoy Every Sandwich" by Lee Lipsenthal, M.D.
Anything from Brené Brown or Malcolm Gladwell
Any non-fiction from Ann Lamott
HUMANS OF NEW YORK

Movies:
Hit & Run
The Silver Linings Playbook
50/50
Tintin

Music:
Majestic Casual playlists are my go to choice for background music to whichever activity I'm doing.

Food:
I go through a lot of spinach.
I don't like fast food or mass-produced food.
I like dessert.
An occasional burger is good.
Sushi, even more so.
Asian cuisine - yes.
There's no shame in granola and bran flakes for dinner.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hey Siri, name six things I could never do without...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I'm feeling, why I feel that way, and the implications of it all.
You should message me if
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