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39 M South Orange, NJ

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm a good guy, a sports nut, a history buff, a pop-culture junkie, a good and loyal friend, have probably spent more time in Barnes and Noble than any one bar (though both are great for different reasons).

Born in NYC, grew up in NJ but have lived in other parts of the country. I love to travel, although I haven't been doing so as much as I'd hoped. Love good food, good wine and good times, in NYC and elsewhere.

Like most people on here, I enjoy working hard and playing hard, balancing the serious and silly aspects of life.
What I’m doing with my life
Seeing what 2014 and 39 have in store. Writing/wordsmithing/content producing. Still missing football season. Reading. Having fun in NYC. Loving being a first-time uncle, posting nephew pics.
I’m really good at
Talking sports, history, pop culture, etc.

Remembering things-I have an incredible recall for important and miscellaneous facts, dates, names, quotes, etc. Don't know how my memory works, it just does.

Bad jokes and good puns (though it could be the other way around).
The first things people usually notice about me
Not sure if this qualifies, but people often mistake my age. I usually don't mind, feel free to keep thinking that I'm "only" 33ish :).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Where do I start with this one?

Books-A Christmas Carol, The Autobiography of Malcom X, When Pride Still Mattered, Battlecry of Freedom, John Jakes North and South trilogy, Catcher in the Rye, numerous comic book and graphic novel titles,etc

Movies-The Empire Strikes Back, Superman(1, 2, Man of Steel), Coming to America, Beverly Hills Cop, Rocky(original, II, III and IV. V never happened!), Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Life of Brian, Airplane, Wall Street, When Harry Met Sally, SuperBad, 12 Years A Slave, The Lego Movie, Anchor Man, etc

Shows-Seinfeld, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Mad Men, Boardwalk Empire, Cheers, The Cosby Show, Monty Python's Flying Circus, The Office, Parks and Recreation, Diff'rent Strokes, Inside The NFL, The Simpsons, Family Guy, Futurama, Bob's Burgers, Breaking Bad, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report (went to a live taping in February. It was great, voice was nearly lost...), Archer, Scandal, Brooklyn 99, The Mindy Project, Real Time With Bill Maher, etc

Music-Rap/Hip-Hop, R&B, Motown, The Beatles, 80s music, Salsa, Merengue, Reaggae/Dancehall, Bob Marley, Gypsy Kings, etc

Food-way too many to mention. Love to eat, especially if steak or lobster is on the menu. Any red velvet dessert too.
The six things I could never do without
My iPhone.
A bottle of Chardonnay
A good book or kindle fire
My passport (gotta add some stamps)
Good friends
NFL Sunday Ticket (what can I say? This last one was a tough one)

Not necessarily in that order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Football, history, Seinfeld quotes, "Who is Don Draper This Season?", my family, how good of an uncle I'll be to my nephew, where I might have left something, my friends whom I've fallen out of touch with, my schedule for the week or weekend, what books or movies I'd like to read or see, what haven't I done or where haven't I been in awhile, what songs should I buy off of iTunes, politics, things along those lines.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having drinks with friends, at a movie, or at home reading, depending how the week went. Sometimes I just let Friday nights happen if I have no definite plans.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've recently been listening to "End of the Line" when traveling on subways and/or NJ Transit trains. Especially if the final stop is in sight....
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You've made it through my profile without falling asleep and would like to chat further.

You've got some good book/kindle recommendations.

You're looking for a partner in and/or out of crime.

You'd like to explore/hang out in NYC this spring (seasonal update).

You'd just like to say hi. All good either way :).

Also, feel free to message me regardless of whether or not you like sports. We might have other shared interests. Looking forward to hearing from you!