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sportywriter12

39 / M / Straight / Single

Hyattsville, Maryland

His Details

Last Online
May 20
Ethnicity
Black
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
There is no exact science to chemistry...my attraction for a woman isn't specific to any ethnicity, height, status level, or occupation. Rather, it's more centered on the general chemistry and comfort level we have with one another.

Ideally, it'd be awesome to simply snap my fingers and have "Mrs. Right" magically appear before my eyes, but i know that's not practical. Dating isn't always so easy.

While the ultimate goal is to have a meaningful relationship, I'd like something non-pressurized or contrived, but something that develops organically. I believe the hallmark of any meaningful relationship, whether platonic or romantic is a solid rapport/friendship. Should it evolve into something more profound, I'm certainly open to that.

I'm college-educated, easy-going, articulate, and able to discuss a myriad of issues. Lover of hearty meals, sports and reality TV!!! HUGE DALLAS COWBOYS fan!!!! I'm thoughtful, reasonable, altruistic, humble, courteous and mild-mannered. Admittedly, I tend to appreciate a woman with a nice backside. (NOTE: It's hard to articulate this without coming across as inappropriate, so let me put it this way, if Sir Mix-a-Lot's 1990's famous hit song applies to you, it's not mandatory but it's a much appreciated bonus :-)

I'm attracted to women who effectively merge two existing dichotomies: Professional woman by day, playful companion away from the workplace. She's a woman of substance, genuineness, intelligence, compassion, and humility. Sports-inclined/tolerant, communicative, affectionate, curvaceous and relatively in shape. Equally as comfortable in a pair of old sweats and t-shirt, as she'd be in a low cut dress with high heels. The perfect blend of professionalism and charm!

NOTE: The OKCupid match/friend/enemy metric is an unscientific way of determining compatibility based on questions etc. That being said, as I mentioned previously, chemistry knows no bounds. Answers to questions often time comes with context that can't be discerned from a yes or no question. If your profile is compelling, regardless of % metric, I'll write. Feel free to do the same.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to live my life to the fullest. I want to broaden my boundaries beyond what is familiar and routine to experience wonderful things in this world. I'm not adverse to learning new things from a woman, sharing in your likes and passions etc...
I’m really good at
I'm really good at writing. I'm also a good teacher. Additionally, I'm a very good listener and someone who can impart some great advice!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
In terms of books, I enjoy some of the typical New York Bestseller non-fiction novels.

Favorite movies: The Shawshank Redemption (probably my favorite of all time), The Green Mile, Sling Blade, Training Day, Gladiator.

Favorite Shows: I enjoy Dexter, ESPN/NFL network sports in general, Spartacus, Boardwalk Empire, The Discovery ID Channel, Survivor, The Amazing Race, The Wire, Game of Thrones, Seinfeld, Homeland, Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead

Favorite Music: I'm eclectic in my musical tastes: R&B, hip hop, hits from the 80's and 90's, and occasionally, I'll dabble in a little country. Marvin Gaye's rendition of the Star Spangled Banner at the 1983 NBA All Star is the single most amazing version EVER!!! Classic and gives me goosebumps every time I hear it! If you haven't heard it, You Tube it!!!

Favorite Foods: I love breakfast food! Can eat this at any time of the day. I also love seafood pasta.

Favorite Teams: Dallas Cowboys (NFL), Miami Heat (NBA), The Washington Capitals (NHL)! I cheer wholeheartedly for my teams in their respective sport. I root for the Baltimore Orioles in baseball, but it just hasn't been the same since Cal Ripken Jr. retired :-(
The six things I could never do without
1. Family - Just the thought of any of them passing away shakes me to the core.
2. Friends - We all need them to get us through tough times.
3. Cellphone - I went years without one, and now, I find it hard to believe how I was able to get by for so long without one.
4. Football - I thought I was going to be admitted to an institution when the lockout was occurring last year, but I'm absolutely excited about the upcoming season and it's literally 6 months away.
5. Good food - I mean, come on now, can you imagine not being able to sink your teeth into something prepared well and absolutely delicious, Yeah I didn't think so. :-)
6. Any of my 5 senses - Can you imagine not being able to hear your favorite songs, or see the most majestic mountains? I shudder at the thought!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...how you can never truly know what someone thinks of you until you interact with that person.

...how life is good at the end of the day, no matter what highs and lows you encounter.

....when a woman views your profile and doesn't send a message, is it because 1) she is old-fashion and prefers the man to make the first move 2) she is just browsing profiles or 3) she has deemed you a troll and isn't interested. LOL! I ask because I'm guilty of this too and in some cases, it's not for a lack of interest...

....at the end of each day, life is truly about gratitude. Whatever adversities you may be dealing with, if you endeavor to treat others the way you'd like to be treated, how do you lose?
On a typical Friday night I am
I may head off to the gym for a workout, or simply kick back or relax and catch some of my shows I've recorded. Or I may hang out with a few friends. I'm generally flexible and can be spontaneous.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I absolutely use to get down and seriously jam to Milli Vanilli and Vanilla Ice!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
If you are genuine about meeting new people and think I'm someone you'd like to know.