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spoudaiosz

36 M Chino Hills, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 24–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:53am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Cancer
Education
Working on med school
Job
Student
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an Asian Canadian currently studying medicine in LA. I am trying to write as much as I can about myself but chemistry is most felt when two parties meet face to face and spend time together.

I believe that everyone is unique. I am not particularly looking for someone that is exactly like me nor one that is totally opposite of me whether it is hobbies or work field. There are good things that we can share together for similar interests; and for us with different interests, we can experiment with them to expand our interests. For example, I don't play music but I love musician (violin melts my heart). I am not in the military but I admire military personnel for their bravery and sacrifice for our freedom and others like entertainment, computer, etc.

As for myself, I am a bit shy at first but usually quacks too much after a while :-) as I get to know people around me. My friends describe me as someone that is ambitious, intelligent, hard-working, honest, easy to admit mistakes, extremely loyal (monogamous), humble, serious at times (job-related), less likely to get angry, (job-related), passionate, compassionate, and kind. I do tend to fall to guys who are kind.

I hope to form friendships which hopefully can flourish into something long term. I am looking for someone who is not only taking care off his body but also his intelligence and skills, well rounded, humble, kind, caring, honest, sincere, independent, and hard-working. MORE importantly, you love what you do.

I am not looking for a perfect Mr Olympia as I value intelligence and personalities much higher than physical appearance.
I haven't met or dated anyone in 7 years as I was solely fixated on work, studying, and volunteering trying to get into medical school. I realize that it was a big mistake to ignore the most important aspect in life as if my life is not complete despite achieving these endeavors. I really miss the feeling to share that deeper connection with someone.

I am not perfect by any means. I have lots of flaws. However, I hope that when the right guy comes along, those flaws will become strengths as we complement each other.

FYI, I am not interested in hook ups. Sex is beautiful in its own place and time but it is not everything. For me personally, without that intimacy, sex is without meaning. I used to be fixated on looking at profiles based on how good looking a guy is or how chiseled his body is. But, I learned that it is more important to learn underneath those perfect bodies of the traits that make a person, i.e. good personalities, honesty, kindness, humility, and intelligence.

Sorry for such a long intro. I am a nice guy once you get to know me. If this caught your attention, write me an email. I am open to have lots of friends as well.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I was a pharmacist for several years back in Canada. Currently in medical school in Socal.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Baking cheesecake, motivating others, studying, volunteering for the community, helping others to get fit
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
In shape and high degree of motivation to do anything I enjoy and commit
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Food: healthy, Japanese, western, non-fried stuff, cheesecake, Southeast Asian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, gym, families and friends, medicine, music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex (Yes, even nerds think about sex. This is how the male brain is wired but it is how you exert self-control is what counts)
Food
Medicine
Future
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unfortunately and for the majority, books and studying. Hopefully, can spend a little bit of time with someone I care about.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a single gay man who is not looking for hook-ups.
You understand my school commitment, goals, and are supportive of them.
You live a healthy lifestyle, i.e. no drugs, no smoking, exercise regularly, eat healthy.