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42 F Dallas, TX

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 36–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
May 28
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a happy, employed, home-owning, life-exploring human who doesn't think it should be this hard to find a good date! However, between work hours, travel, extra-curriculars, quality time with the dog and the fact that I lean to the left and don't know that I am committed to remaining in Texas for eternity, I guess it takes a little online assistance.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in operations in the financial services sector. Means nothing to you? I'm Chief of Staff to the Chief Administrative Officer for NA Retail Bank Operations for a global financial services firm. What? You say that still means nothing? No joke! Have you heard of powerpoint? I do a lot of that. Happy to provide details in person.

When I'm not at work, I am an avid writer, photographer, reader and traveler. Until this current company, I haven't worked in a corporate environment. I'm trying to take writing more seriously because i've been way too lazy about it for way too long.

I'm also a very proud aunt who sometimes has a self-control problem in the kids section of Target and the toy store. I think my inner child is expressing herself.

PS: I don't really believe in my inner child. I'm still a child on the outside, and I'm a.o.k with that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am an excellent friend. I forget about this, b/c it's just part of who I am, but I actually had three people remind me of this fact in the last week, so seems like I should put it down.

Also, I'm great at yard work, I make delicious cookies, I can organize anything as long as it's not mine, and I know how to change a tire (which apparently is a skill even many Texan women don't have).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
hmmmm Top five answers on the board would probably be: laugh, eyes, intelligence, humor, and being game for an adventure.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This could be a long jumbled list: The Border Trilogy (books, not movie), the Professional, the Black Stallion (laugh, but it's a beautifully filmed movie), Star Wars, Crouching Tiger, Lonestar, the West Wing (having my computer stolen from my house sucked; the fact that it had the last disc of Season 4 in it so I had no good DVD to console me sucked worse), Friday Night Lights, Mad Men, TC Boyle (selections), Close Range, The Ha Ha, Charles Bukowski (in certain moods and proper quantities), Fresh Air podcasts, the Moth podcast, Chelsea Lately, indian, thai, and japanese food, a good steak, fresh crab, beet and arugula salad, and lots of various types of music. My collection ranges from pointer sisters to moby to eminem and back to neil young. (sorry, i got lazy with the capital letters...)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dog
My sisters
the smell of the Pacific Northwest in fall
my fleece hoodie
good crisp apples
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why people don't understand that throwing cigarette butts out the car window is littering, and why police never ticket them for doing it. Seriously under-utilized revenue stream, people.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday is my chill night. It can be dinner and drinks with friends, going to the movies, going to yoga, getting a massage, or hanging with the pup, but it's usually mellow.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That even though people think I'm very outgoing, it's actually my way of coping with being incredibly shy.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are smart, funny, looking for someone who will challenge you and whom you can challenge, and looking for a true partner for a life adventure. If you can build things and teach me to two-step, added bonus points are yours, as are excellent cookies.