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sprflycat

37 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 13
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Hospitality
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Dislikes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am a slightly overweight divorced single father on the wrong side of thirty who also has a prominent yellow tooth, doesn't like pets, and I'm currently splitting time between being a cocktail waitress on the weekends and more importantly, studying at the University of Washington as a junior, meaning I have very little time or money for a relationship.

If you're still reading, I'm shocked. Encouraged, but shocked. Let's flush this out a bit, I've always been a big guy but lately, I'm trying to love myself and realize that being healthy doesn't have to look like I'm one of those crossfit people. I've always punched above my weight with the women I've dated and been the guy that people say, "She's with him?" And I'm all like, "Yup." What can I say? I woke up like this...Flawed. What? Flawed.

I am divorced, but I get along really well with my ex/co-parent.

My son is seven years old and he is my little prince. Unquestionably the best thing that ever happened to me.

In some ways, I feel as if I am younger than how I felt at 27.

Ah fuck. My tooth. I chipped it as a child and we couldn't afford to get it fixed properly. You probably have something like my yellow tooth. When things are going pear shaped in my life, I get down on my yellow tooth, noting how it destroys my smile by being so...yellow. When things are fine, I don't notice at all. That's the way we funny humans can be.

I'm allergic to dander.

I love being with people, so naturally, I'm a hell of a cocktail waitress, (and my ass looks amazing in a black skort...)

I am currently enrolled in the Law, Societies, and Justice Program at UW with the aim of studying Human Rights Law. I went to Haiti after the earthquake there and it altered my whole trajectory. For the first time, I have a real ambition. A goal. A career path. It's a very exciting time to be me.

I don't have a lot of time and so if you are looking for someone who will be offer you a real attachment, (which I think is a beautiful thing and certainly not wrong), than I would elsewhere. I'm on my hustle and looking for a woman who's on hers.

And I'm broke most of the time, but I still have fun. I love being active. I play tennis, racquetball, wiffle ball (and I'll whoop you at any of these sports). Love being outside. In short, I love finding things to do that don't cost a bunch of money, free shows, the odd Netflix binge, having dinner parties, getting creative.

"It's that love's in need of love today. Don't delay, send yours in right away. Hate's goin' round, breaking many hearts. Stop it please, before it's gone too far." - Stevie Wonder
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Kicking ass.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can sing and will routinely serenade you. I'm proficient in the lost art of listening. I can talk about my feelings, which dudes struggle with sometimes. I am awesome at FIFA on the Xbox, the only game I play. I love dancing. Really great in front of a crowd. People often say they feel like they've known me forever after a short while.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
... is that I just entered the room, BOOM!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Ugh, this is the worst question. I could go on forever with this. Political books, non-fiction stuff, The Bible, Maya Angelou poetry, Harry Potter, The Alchemist, Beloved, Mountains Beyond Mountains, etc.

I don't know, E.T., in fact most Spielberg, Disney movies, Denzel movies, Pulp Fiction, Grapes of Wrath, City Lights, American Beauty, Good Morning Vietnam, Big Lebowski, Anchorman, 12 Years a Slave, love older shit, foreign shit, docs, I'm not much of a critic, except horror. Not into it.

The most recent show I got into was Borgen, a Danish political drama. AMAZING!!!

Music is so important to me. I can't even begin. 80's, Beatles, Billy Joel, Gospel, Garth Brooks, acoustic, xxyyxx, Led, Hova, Bowie, Roots Reggae, Otis Redding, Stevie, MJ, MJ, MJ, Motown, Nas, Queen Bey, rage, Pink Floyd, Stax/Volt, Debussy, Miles Davis, Sinatra, Dinah Washington, Wu, Yezus, Tribe, everything else.

Food? I grew up in the north country of New Hampshire eating really boring food. I moved to Seattle ten years ago and ever since I feel like I discover a new food to love every week. I'm not much of a cook, but I have a few dishes that I do well.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My little prince
My education
People
Music
Humor
God
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I've been, what I'm doing, and where I'm going.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Waiting tables and making that paper. Maybe catch a happy hour afterwards for a g&t.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I'm listening to my iPod, I imagine that everyone else can hear it too and I see them choreographing accordingly.
You should message me if
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you can see yourself with a slightly overweight divorced single father on the wrong side of thirty who also has a prominent yellow tooth, doesn't like pets, and currently splitting time between being a cocktail waitress on the weekends and more importantly, studying at the University of Washington as a junior, meaning he have very little time or money for a relationship.