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5' 9" (1.75m)
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Post grad
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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When I was six, I dressed up as Batman, and jumped off a sofa believing I could fly. I learned a valuable lesson that day about gravity.

Two decades later, I did a catapult take-off from an aircraft carrier. Take that gravity!

With that out my system, I left my home in Britain and came to the United States in search of adventure.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a magazine correspondent, professor, non-fiction author (fourth book just came out!), and TV pundit.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Toppling tyrants.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My British accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
{ Screen } Woody Allen, Blue Valentine, The Secret in Their Eyes, Wonder Boys, Invasion of the Body Snatchers, The Lives of Others, The Remains of the Day, 28 Days Later, The Godfather, The Professional, The Pianist, Queen Margot, Withnail and I, Children of Men. Just watched the excellent It Follows.

{ TV } Bloodline, Rome, True Blood, Deadwood, Mad Men, Friday Night Lights, Breaking Bad, Ramsay's Kitchen Nightmares, Fawlty Towers, Game of Thrones, Sherlock, True Detective.

{ Music } The Lumineers, Tennis, Stone Roses, Nick Cave, The Libertines, Shins, Arctic Monkeys, Mae, The National, Wolf Parade, Deer Tick, Phoenix, Sea Bear, Girl Talk, Elbow, Pinback, Leonard Cohen, Simon & Garfunkel, The Nightwatchman, Cat Stevens, Throw Me The Statue, Talvin Singh, Apparat & Ellen Allien, Billie Holiday's "The Way You Look Tonight."

{ Books } Just Kids, The Road, Netherland, Under the Banner of Heaven, Middlesex, Sherlock Holmes, The Magus, Gatsby, Shelley: The Pursuit, 1984, The French Lieutenant's Woman, The Moral Animal, Schindler's Ark, Man in the High Castle, Macbeth, Battle Cry of Freedom, New York Review of Books, Economist, GQ, US Weekly.

Recently finished: The Sense of an Ending, The Zone of Interest, Bright Lights, Big City, Ragtime, Station Eleven, Blood Meridian, Brief Interviews with Hideous Men.

{ Food } Patriotism means I have to list Britain's national dish: Indian food. But actually I love all food. I'm a moveable feaster.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hmm...there are Seven Virtues and only six slots available, so either chastity or temperance may have to go.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Jumpers versus sweaters, brilliant versus awesome, aluminium versus aluminum.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At an art museum or a dive bar: museums for the drinking, and dive bars for the art.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I own an enormous landed estate in England, named Pemberley.
You should message me if
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You were born in 1970 in the Catskills, your dad's a Norwegian clothes manufacturer, and your mom's a Jewish antiques dealer.

Oh, no, wait...that's Jennifer Connelly.

Just kidding, I'm not really that picky.

I'd love to meet someone smart and creative, who sees the funny side.

Call me old-fashioned, but I'd rather escape from OKC and get to know you over a glass of wine.