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sputnikme

36 F Shanghai, China

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 30–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 19
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Taiwanese-American working in Shanghai. Lived/worked in Taipei, Jakarta, NY, LA, SF, and now in Shanghai. Looking for real people in a surreal city.

I came from a conservative Kuomintang family and all they wish of me was housewife, teacher, nurse, accountant...etc. My high school classmates remembered me as a nerd- I wasn't bullied though as I was the nerd that had the cool kids as BFFs. I liberated myself after moving to California- I experimented many things there like my second life- motorcycling, fishing, diving, kayaking, horseback riding...etc. I rode a Suzuki Bandit 400....

Moving to Shanghai was another turning point in my life, I'm enjoying it so far. Interesting and diversed energy. Been here nearing my second tax break so not about partying but live a life. It is positive if your glass is full and vice versa.

If you like hunting, fishing or taxidermy, I'm not sure we will be friends. Yes I'm not vegetarian but don't understand the thrill of killing for fun and I'm trying to eat less meat.
What I’m doing with my life
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Good work / life balance, mental and spiritual health. Live a life with no regrets not meaning live a carefree life but not "what if" or "I should have".

I travel a lot for work and pleasure. Everytime there is a turbulence I always asked myself if I should have said or done something but I didn't. Then I got the courage and the results have been great. I have to admit I'm quite dramatic sometimes like when I called my loved ones to tell them I love them the night before I had to take Malaysian Airlines 4 times in a week for a convention in Langkawi just four days after the MH330 incident. Hey at least I have the guts right?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Keep old friends, old memories, networking. I still keep my high school graduation book et al.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm nice and full of energy. Koreans notice my eyes: Too big for Asians...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Animal Farm, The Last Lecture, How Do You Measure Your Life, Steve Jobs...
Movies: Being John Malkovich, Underground, Notting Hill, Forest Gump...
Series: Game of Thrones, Criminal Minds, Breaking Bad, Grey's Anatomy...
Music: New wave, rock; and trying to get into classical.
Food: Taiwan street food, hotpot, cioppino, sushi, chili crab...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family
Friends
Sunshine
Morning black coffee
Wine
Smartphones
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work-life balance, professional and personal aspects and how to excel and be happy in both worlds. It's not the cliche of work hard play hard, but how to work wisely and have quality time to myself and my loved ones outside of work.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have cockroach phoebia
I love zombies movies
You should message me if
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You are open-minded and interested to know more about me. Or you are looking for Ukulele, Chinese painting, squash, yoga partners.