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37 Shanghai, China Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 24
Open relationship
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Taiwanese-American lived/worked in Taipei, Jakarta, New York, Los Angeles, San Francisco and now in Shanghai. Looking for real people in a surreal city.

I came from a conservative Kuomintang family and spent my adolescent life in Southeast Asia. I was a FOB whitewash wanna-be in California and tried piercings, tattoos, motorcycles... Now I'm just a corporate hipster- Healed my piercings, removed my tattoo, donated my 400CC.

I'm being told I'm "extensively focused", having some hobbies. I like biking, Chinese painting, performing arts (watched 30+ musicals, 7 cirque du soleils,some plays, dance...etc), art deco, 80s everything, acoustic/vintage stereo system...etc.

I also enjoy Pinot Noir, hand drip coffee, single name a few.
What I’m doing with my life
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Good work / life balance, mental and spiritual health. Live a life with no regrets not meaning live a carefree life but not "what if" or "I should have". Don't save everything for "the special day” because it is a special day everyday.

I have to admit I'm quite dramatic sometimes like when I called my loved ones to tell them I love them the night before I had to take Malaysian Airlines 4 times in a week for a convention in Langkawi just four days after the MH330 incident. Hey at least I have the guts right?
I’m really good at
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Keep old friends, old memories, networking. I still keep my high school graduation book et al.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm full of energy / ADD. Koreans notice my eyes: Too big for Asians...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Animal Farm, The Last Lecture, How Do You Measure Your Life, Steve Jobs...

Movies: Being John Malkovich, Interstellar...

Series: Game of Thrones, Criminal Minds, The Walking Dead...

Musical: A Gentleman's Guide To Love & Murder, Rent, Les Mis, Wicked, We Will Rock You...

Music: New wave, easy vocals...

Food: Taiwan street food, hotpot, cioppino, sushi, chili crab...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Morning black coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work-life balance, professional and personal aspects and how to excel and be happy in both worlds. It's not the cliche of work hard play hard, but how to work wisely and have quality time to myself and my loved ones outside of work.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Happy hour and then quality time with my inner circle.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have cockroach phoebia
I love zombie movies
You should message me if
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You are open-minded and interested to know more about me.