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54 Durham, NC Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 43–56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 24, 2013
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a 50 year old, professional woman. I know what is real, I know what I want, and I want what is real. I am fun loving, adventurous, witty, intelligent, opinionated, assertive, and I care. I am more honest that some people like, direct, and no nonsense. I am a good woman with a big heart who would love to spoil the man who prioritizes spoiling his mate. I have never been married because I have not yet found that man. I love kids. I believe in miracles, I believe in magic, childlike wonder, the splendor of nature, and the tragedy of global warming. I am looking for friendship, adventure, commitment, growth, and believe in the kind of love that makes me wake up and smile to be by the side of a true partner. Oh, and I golf!

Through life the road is long and curved, I take the path less trodden. I search and long for the one whose eyes see all there is and more. I wonder at all the world, so full of joy and pain. I drink it in, all of it, and grow from its nourishment. I laugh and cry, and stomp my feet. I dance and sway, and curl up in a ball to block out the injustice. I live. And still I search and long for the one whose eyes see all there is and more.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking for a reason not to leave North Carolina or the inspiration to make the move.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing, caring, pitching a tent, debate, fun, appreciation, cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes and that I am friendly and smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food:ethnic and American food,
Music: most music without profanity or disrespect,
Shows: theater, comedy, music (esp. outdoor concerts,
Movies: Out of Africa, Moonstruck, Across the Universe, Avatar ( I want to be a Nubian Princess-nine feet tall, blue skin, long tail that connects me to everything in my world, and flying on dragons!), many more,
Books: yes!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
nature, love, belief, family and friends, good food, music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How this country/world/society got so f-ed up....cause it has largely happened in my lifetime and if there is any way to turn it around.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking for trouble...or fun or both
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is I have lots of things I am willing to admit.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
your heart and/or soul tell you too. Go ahead, I don't bite hard 'til I know you better :D