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spy-c-noodle

51 / F / Bisexual / Single

Durham, North Carolina

Her Details

Last Online
May 12
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am a 50 year old, professional woman. I know what is real, I know what I want, and I want what is real. I am fun loving, adventurous, witty, intelligent, opinionated, assertive, and I care. I am more honest that some people like, direct, and no nonsense. I am a good woman with a big heart who would love to spoil the man who prioritizes spoiling his mate. I have never been married because I have not yet found that man. I love kids. I believe in miracles, I believe in magic, childlike wonder, the splendor of nature, and the tragedy of global warming. I am looking for friendship, adventure, commitment, growth, and believe in the kind of love that makes me wake up and smile to be by the side of a true partner. Oh, and I golf!

Through life the road is long and curved, I take the path less trodden. I search and long for the one whose eyes see all there is and more. I wonder at all the world, so full of joy and pain. I drink it in, all of it, and grow from its nourishment. I laugh and cry, and stomp my feet. I dance and sway, and curl up in a ball to block out the injustice. I live. And still I search and long for the one whose eyes see all there is and more.
What I’m doing with my life
Looking for a reason not to leave North Carolina or the inspiration to make the move.
I’m really good at
Seeing, caring, pitching a tent, debate, fun, appreciation, cooking.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes and that I am friendly and smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Food:ethnic and American food,
Music: most music without profanity or disrespect,
Shows: theater, comedy, music (esp. outdoor concerts,
Movies: Out of Africa, Moonstruck, Across the Universe, Avatar ( I want to be a Nubian Princess-nine feet tall, blue skin, long tail that connects me to everything in my world, and flying on dragons!), many more,
Books: yes!
The six things I could never do without
nature, love, belief, family and friends, good food, music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How this country/world/society got so f-ed up....cause it has largely happened in my lifetime and if there is any way to turn it around.
On a typical Friday night I am
Looking for trouble...or fun or both
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is I have lots of things I am willing to admit.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 43–56
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
your heart and/or soul tell you too. Go ahead, I don't bite hard 'til I know you better :D