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41 / M / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 6:26am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo
Education
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I've lived in SF for 12 years. I grew up in the mountains of California, but I've been a city boy since I left after high school (L.A., NYC, but mostly SF). I have a good job that I enjoy and I'm generally satisfied with life. I like to write. I don't get paid to write. I get paid to play with numbers. Which is funny but also creates a decent balance. I'm a city boy. Getting out to the woods or the coasts or the rivers or the deserts is also fun.

I'm a 49ers fan (yes, still recovering from that Super Bowl loss), and it's great fun supporting the Giants, though I don't really follow baseball a bunch (stats galore!). Going to see a Giants game, however, is always a good time.

Important to me: sense of humor, intelligence, some shared interests, chemistry. Sometimes I'm messy and sometimes I'm tidy. I like a good debate. I'm sturdy.
What I’m doing with my life
Lately I've picked up drawing (again)--extinct California Grizzlies in SF, mostly. I'd like to travel more.
I’m really good at
I'm driven and reliable. I tend toward affectionate when I'm with the right person. I have, and appreciate, a good sense of humor. Some sarcasm is good, but I prefer the good-spirited sort of play, less the caustic, clever brand. I guess there's still some of the small town mountain boy in me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Cormac McCarthy, Michel Houellebecq, Georges Perec, George Orwell, Herman Melville, Dawn Powell, Charles Bukowski, Milan Kundera, Joan Didion, Truman Capote, James Joyce, Mikhail Bulgakov, Kazuo Ishiguro, William Shakespeare, Han-Shan.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Writing, location for my next grizzly bear drawing, friends, family, work.
On a typical Friday night I am
Winding up; or, winding down.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I recently put my underwear on backwards and didn't notice until around lunch. Okay, after lunch.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You go in for that sort of thing.