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  • Ages 35–55
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My details

Last online
Jul 21
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Seeing Someone
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Dutch (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm pretty.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a computer geek by trade and write, for lack of a better word, as a hobby.

This will be the third November I've participated in NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month). At some point, I really need to clean up one of these drafts and see if I can get it published.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can write reasonably well, which gives me an edge over most functional illiterates. How well this skill translates into real-time social interaction is another matter entirely.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My delicate-as-fuck sensibilities.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I was recently asked to list my 15 favorite books on Facebook. I'll post that list here and then do likewise for movies and music.

1. The Ginger Man - JP Donleavy
2. Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas - Hunter S. Thompson
3. Ripley's Game - Patricia Highsmith
4. Johnny Got His Gun - Dalton Trumbo
5. Invisible Monsters - Chuck Palahniuk
6. Perfume - Patrick Süskind
7. Popular Delusions and the Madness of Crowds - Charles Mackay
8. Flashman's Lady - George MacDonald Fraser
9. A Confederacy of Dunces - John Kennedy Toole
10. The Wasp Factory - Iain Banks
11. Slaughterhouse Five - Kurt Vonnegut
12. The Portable Dorothy Parker - Dorothy Parker
13. The Knockout Artist - Harry Crews
14. Wise Blood - Flannery O'Connor
15. James and the Giant Peach - Roald Dahl
And adding one more because I can:
16. Suddenly a Knock at the Door - Etgar Keret

1. Goodfellas
2. Peeping Tom
3. Faster Pussycat, Kill Kill
4. Spider
5. The Decline of Western Civilization
6. Gojira (1954 sans Raymond Burr)
7. Dawn of the Dead (1978)
8. Gothic
9. Santa Sangre
10. The Vanishing (Dutch)
11. Re-Animator
12. Blazing Saddles
13. Starship Troopers
14. The Thin Blue Line

1. The Clash
2. Pogues
3. Patti Smith
4. Ramones
5. X-Ray Spex
6. The Pagans
7. X
8. Dictators
9. New York Dolls
10. Bad Brains
11. Toy Dolls
12. Black Flag
13. Sloppy Seconds
14. New Bomb Turks
15. Buzzcocks

(This is where the paradigm breaks down. My tastes are not only varied by too driven by daily whim for me to make a list. Let's just say that I am an omnivore and like food from all over the world.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Internet access, books, my blog, strange films, gut-bomb burritos, and listening to punk rock that is older than a lot of my friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Icky things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
That depends on my mood. I often go for a drink after work at my local bar where I either chat with friends or scribble in my notebook. Other times, I do my writing in a cafe or go out to dinner with friends. I might sound more if I said that I exploded onto the scene every weekend like a crazed force of nature, but I'll save the lying for my stories.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Despite my macabre sense of humor, I'm actually quite harmless.
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Not looking for anyone other than friends.