Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm ryan. Let' get the fine print out of the way first. I'm a dad
to two wonderful little boys. Easily the best thing I have ever
done in my life. I have my kids every weekend, which can be
challenging to some but for now is the most time I can spend with
them so I take full advantage. I am nervous about serious dating. I
find the idea of commitment scary. I want someone to change that.
So that's the "bad." The ugly, so to speak.
Now, the good. I'm so open to the idea of "the one." I'm trying to
remain optimistic about finding someone who rocks my socks so far
off I don't even bother trying to find them. I miss being in love.
I've been lucky enough to be completely head over heels in love
before and I want that again.
And finally, the fun. I love to be silly. I love to laugh. I'm full
of life and have a huge personality. I can be a lot. If there's a
spark watch out. I don't hold anything back, both in relationships
and in day to day life. You only get one kick at the can on this
rock (apologies to resurrectionalists) and life is far to short for
anything but full disclosure and honesty. I'll tell you anything
you want to know, but remember, don't ask a question if you don't
want to hear the answer.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a mechanic. My professional life is interesting and exciting. I
get to do a bunch of fun stuff and am fortunate enough to work with
a really great group of guys.
I'm working every day to become a better person and father. I'm a
strong believer in karma and work at mine consistently. I want to
surround myself with positive, energetic and above all intelligent
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. Keeping secrets. Writing short sentences. Having super
awesome conversations about anything and everything. Cuddling.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My huge personality. My sense of humor. My confidence. My Douglas
Adams style responsive to numbers.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Crabbe, The Phantom Tollbooth, Ender's Game, Uncle John's bathroom
readers, Dune, Farenheit 451, 1984, dystopian future, alternate
history, anything educational, any musician biography.
High Fidelity, Fight Club, Snatch, Anything Kevin Smith
Seinfeld, The Office, Corner Gas
I have 3000 records and 1000 cds, so...lots? 90's Alternative
Almost anything from 60's rock through 2000's metal. I like music
with meaning, even if that meaning is pointless. (Looking at you
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My boys. Music. Books. Conversation. Food. Air.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Communication. I'm fascinated by human interaction and
communication. I love to people watch.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It wouldn't be very private if I put it out there for the world to
know now would it? Ask me anything, I'm an open book.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You know how to spell. You use grammar and punctuation when you
text. You have confidence and can carry a conversation. You like
being treated like a lady. You consider yourself unique and
beautiful. You actually want to hang out and not just play behind
the anonymity of the interweb. OR You have a rocket ship.
Who are you looking for?
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