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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35-53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:44am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Has kid(s)
My self-summary
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I moved to Bellingham a few months ago and I'm still getting settled in. I haven't really met anyone yet and after a long absence, I've decided to give this another shot.

First and foremost, I am looking for a best friend. Someone who can challenge me and with whom I can build a friendship based on trust and mutual respect. I am not looking for sex, or to get married. If there is chemistry and our friendship should lead to something more, let it happen naturally. Life is meant to be lived one day at a time; there's no need to rush anything. If this doesn't work for you, thanks for reading this far.

I have three boys, 14, 11 and 4. They are my moon and stars. If you have children, I expect you to feel the same way; they should be the most important part of your life. I don't mind being less important than your children. My kids are amazing. I'm not sure if that makes me a great parent or if I just guessed right.

I am very honest and sincere. I like to make fun of myself. I have a lot of material to work with.

I love to sing in the car; it's not pretty. When I sing in the shower, the water tends to run back up the pipes, trying to escape.

I can be a little absentminded at times. I think that my slide into senility will go largely unnoticed.

I am not clumsy, I am coordinationally disadvantaged... It's not funny. Okay, it is, but you don't know my struggle.

I am only human; I am not perfect and I make mistakes. The important thing is that I learn from my mistakes and apply any lessons learned, to my life. I learned a lot of lessons from my marriage.

I am a small town guy, with small town values. I believe in treating a lady, like a lady and can be a little old-fashioned, when it comes to manners. I am always polite.

And sometimes, I am just ridiculously silly. I love to laugh, especially at myself. I speak fluent sarcasm.

I don't have time for angry, bitter people, or anyone that is too insecure. I'm not looking for eight pounds of drama in a four pound bag.

If you're willing to take a chance, let's see what the day brings.

Thanks, for taking the time to read my profile and I do promise to respond to anyone who contacts me. Everyone deserves the dignity of a reply.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in the IT field. I have career goals and plans for the future. I just relocated to this area at the beginning of June and I am still finding my way around.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a freelance professional photographer and published writer (short stories). I think that the photographs that I take and the stories I write, say a lot about me. If you'd really like some insight into what I am like, ask, and I'll send you a link. I'm not Ansel Adams and I'm not Billy Bob Shakespeare, but I'm not too bad.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My big, goofy grin. It's either that, or I am tripping over something. Usually both.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to read, appreciate good movies, am very passionate about music and love great food. I can cook up a storm, too.

I am always in the middle of at least one book. I read a lot of literature, philosophy, history, some horror and some sci-fi. Paradise Lost has always been a favorite; it sings to me.

I don't watch a lot of television, although I don't mind hanging out with good friends and watching what they like. It's all about the company you keep.

There's nothing like snuggling up on the couch and watching a good movie. I love comedies and an occasional action film. I like horror films, but today's movies can be a bit over the top. I love zombie movies. Romantic comedies are alright and I was surprised at how much I enjoyed movies like The Notebook and Safe Haven.

I haven't been to many stage shows, but I have enjoyed the ones that I have been to and would enjoy seeing some more.

Music is such happy noise and I do listen to a few different types. Favorite bands include Marillion, Coldplay, Pearl Jam, Brad, U2, Live, Rush, David Gray, Ufo and many more. I love all of those cheesy, old songs from the 70's (like Wildfire), Motown, Big Bands, Sinatra and a lot more.

I love going to concerts and have seen many bands play live. There always seems to be magic, in the air and when the company is good, that only makes it better.

Food - I love eating great food, discovering new restaurants and trying new things. I love Italian, Chinese, Thai, Deli and pretty much anything edible. Chocolate and peanut butter are my best friends, along with pizza and soft pretzels. I worked as a chef, once upon a time and love cooking. While I don't eat tons of red meat, these days, I can guarantee you that I could make you the best steak you've ever tasted.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My children
My camera
Maybe you? 'J’entend ton coeur'
More cowbell. That's seven. Screw the rules.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My children. It is hard to be away from them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not doing much, these days. Normally, I'd be into just about anything. I enjoy dinners out, movies, mini golf, concerts and quiet nights at home. I love the boardwalk, ocean and beach. Anything can be fun, with the right person.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I might not be the most graceful person in the world. I'm more like a ballerina on crack kind of graceful, but I imagine it's fun to watch.
You should message me if
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you're looking for a great friend and wherever that may lead.
you like to laugh and have fun.
you are honest, caring and kind.