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srpmbax

41 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:05pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I always feel like an idiot when I try to fill something like this out. The best way to get to know me is... to meet me and get to know me.

I'm kind of a nerd but not a full on neo-maxi-zim-dweebie, or I can also be tantalizingly charming. It depends on the day and who I'm with. I've had a very friendly cat for 12 yrs and is as big as a house. I was in a very rewarding open relationship for 5 yrs but we decided to part and go our separate ways. I'm not in the market for a life partner or a long term relationship right now. I like meeting new people and finding out our similarities and differences. I'm pretty easy going and not a big fan of drama. I have a good relationship with my parents and the rest of my family. I live up in the northern part of Manhattan. I am very sexual and have always enjoyed a healthy sex life, but it's not a necessary requirement for meeting new people and having fun.

AAAANNDDD I apparently take the worst self photo for a profile picture. That's why I have my professional head shot on here.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm an actor and a Fight Director. It means I teach people how to do staged combat in theatre and opera. Basically my job is to keep people safe and tell a good story. (And I get to play with swords)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a great Fight Director (when the jobs are available)
I'm an okay actor (once again, when the jobs are available)
I make fantastic eggs, and I cook a mean Thanksgiving turkey.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my eyes and cheekbones.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This list could go on for days. And it always depends on my mood.

Sample movies:
Jaws, Lord of the Rings. Batman, Forrest Gump, The Kings Speech, Ordinary People, The Outlaw Josie Wales, Conan the Barbarian, The Jerk, The African Queen, True Grit, Bambi, Etc.

Sample Food: Thai, Chinese take out, Salads, BBQ Ribs, Etc

Sample Books: Ender's Game, Raptor, Lonesome Dove, Beach Music, Shogun, Game of Thrones series, Harry Potter, The Golden Compass, IT, Etc

Sample Music: Mozart's Requiem, AC/DC - Back in Black, Bon Jovi -Blaze of Glory, Harry Connick Jr - We are in Love, Frank Sinatra - Anything, Jimmy Buffet - Songs you Know by Heart, Tom Waits - Closing Time, Adele - Set Fire to the Rain, Annie Lennox - Love Song for a Vampire, Pucifer - The Humbling River, etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
um .... air, food, water, the earth, the sky, my life.... and possibly Reeses Pieces
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I have absolutely no answer for this
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either at the Bar having a few drinks, at home watching a movie on my laptop, at home reading a book, or if it's a really good Friday night I am having sex.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Gotta ask me that in person.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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You think I might be someone you want to meet up with.
You want to meet up with someone who's not a complete asshole.