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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Last online
Nov 5
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5' 11" (1.80m)
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Special Diet
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
--contradictory creature seeks complimentary ones--

In brief--I am a dominant bisexual male with switch tendencies, rational and mystic, cautious and wild, conscientious and savage.

I am:

Part gargoyle, part werewolf, part ghost, part amusement-park barker, part evil child...

More visionary than scholar, but possessing a huge urban-legend clutter of ideas, images and prettily burning questions...

A magic-haunted life, altering what I could accept and believe; I use Yoga, magic, BDSM and art to extend/exceed myself...

Religious about Halloween, flesh, reason and madness...

Storyteller--in all ways, this is the center.

I am aware, passionate, and complex
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Writing, working on a computer game in a garage atmosphere, tinkering with my brain and reality (ignore the flickers in the corners of your eyes,) and other artistic, spiritual, and interpersonal endeavors.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Paying attention, creating worlds at the drop of a hat, evoking strange feelings*, and seeing things in interesting ways. (*in my writing. in people sitting near me on the bus. in that little patch of skin, right... there...)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
a) Little, Big, by John Crowley, lots of fun head game stuff, Ecco, P. K. Dick, things that make you think about things differently. I like Clive Barker and Neil Gaiman.

b) Wings of Desire, Bull Durham, The Double Life of Veronique, Secretary is up there, Donnie Darko, Run Lola Run, Picnic At Hanging Rock, The Company of Wolves, Lulu or Pandora's Box, Fritz Lang's 'M', things by Hitchcock, Lynch, Kubric... Akira... Hero... Big Meat Eater... I live near Scarecrow Video, thus love movies too much, perhaps...

c) oooh boy, well, David Sylvian, Vas, Dead Can Dance and early Cocteau Twins, Caberet Voltaire, Einst�rzende Neubauten, Robyn Hitchcock, Suzanne Vega, Early Music all sorts, Siouxsie And The Banshees, Monochrome Set, Charlie Parker, Miles Davis, John Coltrane, Loreena McKennitt, J. S. Bach, Goldfrapp, Cinephile, Danielle Dax, Origa, The Residents, Sneaker Pimps, the list goes on. I have this thing for 80s weird stuff too; Chrome, Joy Division... Music is a spiritual thing for me, and I keep finding new stuff that matters. Turn me on to something, please.

d) Thai, Indian, Bizarre NW cuisine, Japanese, I make a *killer* vegetarian Gumbo. Creative vegetarian cooking. Stuff I make. Stuff my housemates make.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Love, Politics, Sex, Psychology and other schools of Magic, memes, BDSM, joy, metaphor, myth, Spirituality... they taste great all mixed together in a sizzling brain pan...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I suffer from Fibromyalgia, which places distinct limits on my life.

This is inspiring me to become an escape artist.
You should message me if
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You want to explore interesting ideas, and/or create nice new worlds, and/or be seen in interesting ways...