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69 Wilton, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 50–67
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Graduated from university
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hello--I'm looking for a financially and emotionally stable woman who is looking for a financially and emotionally stable man. I try to keep myself physically fit and would like that in a partner. Having a good education and being able to put several words together in a row that make sense would be nice (even one word in a row might work), as would having a pulse (although NOT having a pulse might work too, but I'm not really into necrophilia--it's soooo one-sided!). I like to read, so it would be wonderful--but not required--to be able to have someone who also reads (or at least knows HOW to read). Being adventurous, hiking (just short hikes!!) and traveling are all things I like to do, and it would be great to do those with someone else.

I am Intelligent, Entertaining, and Adventurous
What I’m doing with my life
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After retiring I started taking piano lessons. I'll never be great at it (so much for my plans to play at Carnegie Hall!), but I enjoy it. I tried the violin too but after a few lessons with my teacher she killed herself (just kidding) and I quit playing. I've flown small planes in the past and have done a lot of traveling--both locally and outside of the country. I go to the gym regularly. I read a lot--even books that don't have photos! I live in Wilton (next door to Elk Grove, about 12 miles south of Sacramento) where the buffalo (deer, actually) play, and am converting 8 acres of pasture land into a nature preserve. Love the animals--deer, coyotes, beavers, skunks (not so much), raccoons, etc. Still looking for the lions, tigers and bears.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Entertaining my guests and cooking--and making you laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Is my smile ;-))))))))))))))
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read a lot of non-fiction books and love good movies, especially movies with Ed Harris, Diane Lane, Viggio Mortensen, Clint Eastwood, Diane Lane, Diane Lane and Diane Lane.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My toothbrush, my health, my Mac, my friends, creme brulee and my free time (not necessarily in that order).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What life--and the world--will be like in the future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going to a movie, cooking up a special dinner for friends or eating at a nice restaurant.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a closet dessert freak!
You should message me if
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Any of the above interests you and you are breathing and have at least a weak pulse.