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ssl1980

34 F Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 15
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Gemini
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I work a 9 to 5 helping people who see and hear things that aren't there. It's kind of weird to think my reality is based in people's non-reality for 40 hours of the week. I used to have a little side gig working in the tourism industry, covering glbt events for the City of Chicago. It gave me an excuse to wander the city and from time to time, be a tourist in my own town. It also helped me to become a wicked good planner. I'm also known to play gigs around town with my band. I totally dig baseball and look forward to the red sox being in town.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, writing, and having a good time. Enjoying being in the moment and being spontaneous. Random trips out of the city in to nature make me smile. Throw me a trail map, and I'm all about it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being nerdy whether that be hitting up a trivia night or taking on a game of scrabble. I'm also a good listener...goes with the profession. I'm also fiercely loyal.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Right now, probably my hair. It often changes between red and bleached something. Sometimes it's bright enough to stop traffic.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a connoisseur of live music. I listen to a bit of everything and will go blindly into a show even if I've never heard the band before.

As for film, i generally like documentaries.

I'm also a self-proclaimed foodie and love the fact that chicago is such a good eatin town. I also like to cook and can whip up a wicked dinner although baking is not my forte. I recently baked a fresh cherry pie not realizing how long it takes to actually make one from scratch. The 8 buck pie from Whole Foods seems like the better option.

TV is Netflix or whatever I can stream.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) iPod
2) coffee
3) my friends and family
4) a notebook
5) good craft beer
6) genuineness
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The inappropriate things I see on the CTA.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It really depends. I can be out and about or happily at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like to write songs about people and name them after the cities they are from.
You should message me if
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You're interested in having a good conversation and want to grab a coffee or a brewski.