I am something of a massive contradiction to the usual fare. I have
an above average IQ, EQ and very fit with a wide variety of skills
(former ff, soldier, mba, rugby player, writer, product development
and marketing, IT guy, ...blah, blah, blah). Regardless of the
short pass, I am an interesting guy with a penchant for spontaneous
acts of Tom Foolery. I am also a secure, happy and dashing
gentleman. I enjoy good people, irreverence, independent thought,
new experiences, eclectic music, exercise (physical & mental),
technology, creating apps, taking risks, rugby, travel, passion and
strawberry ice cream. I am self-sufficient, honest and I have a
wickedly dry sense of humor. I am looking for someone with similar
interests (a partner in crime, if you will) to go on new
adventures, wherever they may be, talk, walk/run, eat and be
merry....I have an *almost* unmatched passion for life (I don't
know if this is it but if it is I am going make the most of it), or
whatever it is that I am focused on at any given moment (but not
What I’m doing with my life
is seeking self-actualization. I've run my course in academics,
vol. fire fighter, part-time soldier (hazmat), and still playing
rugby (with other men who refuse to hang up the cleats), marketing
maven, being a good friend and trying to wring every drop of
positive joy I can before I take my final breath.
I’m really good at
Are things that are probably too relative to put down. I feel that
I am a good man, honorable and strive to be better.
The first things people usually notice about me
...are my eyes, that I am in the general proximity, and a noticable
spike in detectable energy levels.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Let's start with movies. I could go on and on with specific titles
depending on the mood but I'll stick to genres in case you are
reading this on the go. I enjoy smart THRILLERS, Wes Anderdon
COMEDIES, ROMANCE COMEDIES, ACTION/DRAMA, DRAMA, SCI
FI/FANTASY/HORROR and good DOCUMENTARIES & NATURE ACTION where
I sort of just zone out in an alpha-meditation and absorb the
information, which most likely won't be accessed again due to
For TV...I'm off the grid and don't keep well to weekly TV
monitoring schedules...but I love any SNL skit with, or a parody
of, Christopher Walken (we all need more cow bell), The Walking
Dead, Mad Men, Family Guy, etc.
As for music, simply put, eclectic, with roots in metal, rock,
progressive/tribal house, grunge, punk (oy!), industrial, pop,
industrial pop :-D, techno, eurotrash but lean toward trance when
running. I think that EVERY human being should have their ow n
personal soundtrack or theme music.
Too many books to list, fiction and non, and have been reading up
on the coming zombie apocalypse and how to survive but studied
Shakespeare at the Arden Theater and can blurt out a monologue or
sonnet when the right chain is yanked...once more unto the breach
and all of that. I also enjoy graphic novels and own all of the
essentials. At one point I wanted to write & draw graphic
novels but my life-arc took a different path. I think my childhood
mimicked Calvin and Hobbes.
Regarding food, I'll try almost anything with the right combination
of protein, carbohydrates & fat yet avoid anything "fast" with
The six things I could never do without
Are outlined in Maslow's hierarchy of needs...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Family!!! Friends!!! The human condition. Alternate realities,
hanging out on Yorkville street corners, aliens, sea monkeys, theta
sleep, deep rub massages, metaphysics, running up steep inclines in
Central Park at breakneck speeds, fellow thug nerds, getting lost,
China, paying bills on time, cool and useful apps, when the
Illuminati "chip" will be mandatory implants for all new births,
what I would do with a dollar, and the next big thing.
On a typical Friday night I am
doing atypical things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
This us not something I wish to post...where is the mystery?!
You should message me if
you want quality, a partner, a friend, at least one big smile or
laugh a day, and still looking for new adventures in this life.
Essentially, I am looking for someone to enjoy our short time on
this earth with little to hold back, friend or otherwise. Let's
expand each other by sharing past, current and new experiences and
ideas. Everyone can learn something from anyone.