ssssam69
33 Randburg, South Africa
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My self-summary
Hi there ladies. I am a recently single gentleman in my early thirties. I am not looking for anything too serious at the moment.
I went into a very serious relationship at a very young age - and now that it didn't work out, I guess I feel like I didn't date or 'experiment' enough when I was younger (that sounds sooooo cheesy but I can't think of a better description right now).

So why am I on a dating site? I do not struggle to meet women, but it's hard to find someone looking for the same as me at the moment. But on here, I can stipulate upfront what I want, which could be more awkward in other situations.

What I miss most about being in a relationship is the cuddling etc. I am also a very giving person. I absolutely love giving massages. I really miss being able to massage a woman's back (which to me is one of the most sexy parts of a woman's body, by the way).

You will notice my profile says i'm looking for 'casual sex' - this isn't entirely correct. I'm looking for all sorts of casual romantic encounters. I'm happy just massaging your back; taking a bath together by candlelight, or just going lingerie shopping together. 'sex' isn't expected - but if it leads there naturally of course it will be great (:

Update: I get quote a few questions about why the limited profile pic. Simple, I work with young people aged 22-25. Bumping into one of them here would be awkward, to say the least. So there are many more pictures to share, once we have established that you are indeed not one of my students (:
What I’m doing with my life
I have a very exciting career which takes me to great places, I am therefore not looking for 'fulfillment' or 'happiness' from a relationship, I am very happy as and where I am.

I am out of town a lot - so it doesn't matter if you're not in Joberg.
I’m really good at
working with my hands (in a literal sense)
working with my hands (in a figurative sense (:
finding what makes you tick... and then... well.. making you tick (:
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't like to shave
My eyes kind of change colour depending on what I'm wearing. Ok, they don't go pink, but they vary between blue and green (:
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love reading but I don't get much time to read anymore. I generally enjoy anything that is well-written. My favourite is somewhere I can learn something, a biography or from an interesting character in a great novel.

Music &movies, anything really, depends on my mood, once again, as long as it is well-produced, or can make me feel something.
The six things I could never do without
I'll classify "Good food, craft beer, wine, whiskey" as one (:
Someone to share the above with
Sleep
Intellectual stimulation
Physical stimulation (Sex/Touch/Massages - giving and receiving)
My cat
I spend a lot of time thinking about
sex. (that's about as honest as you get :)
On a typical Friday night I am
no such thing as a "typical Friday night"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a bit of an intellectual...
I'm ambidextrous...
You should message me if
you want a free no strings attached massage (:

No seriously, if you think we can be good to one another then message me (:
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