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  • Ages 18-33
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Dec 28, 2014
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5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Chinese (Somewhat), Russian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So I finally found some time to update this...

This is my fourth year in Shanghai and I am loving it still but not as much as the first 2 years :-) I'm pretty settled now with a stable job and constant working hours. I work a lot, a lot more than I would like to, but that is alright. Not an English teacher if you want to ask.

I still like to stroll through the streets and explore, whenever I find time to do that. Now that mostly happens on weekends and there is always a different area I pick, the constant so far is mostly good weather and 80% of the time a beer in hand. I also love to ride my bike through Shanghai - it was one of the best decisions ever to get a bicycle here and now I am faster than those annoying Motor-Scooters and healthier - take it over the subway any day, only rain stops me. Also since I live 12 km from work it takes about the same time 35-40 Minutes, awesome, isn't it?

I love to be loud, to laugh loud and to sing loud, to speak loud and I like to listen to stories and tell mine. Music is a big hobby of mine, but also writing and trying to be funny. 50% of the time that works all the time.

This was the place where I wrote about a double date I once had. I forgot about it. Let's make this shorter. I don't have time for silly gold-diggers or people that do not know what they want. To be fair, I am pretty tolerant and open to a lot of options, so feel free to make a choice, I make mine as well and maybe they fit each other and we do.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I try to be become better every day. I don't know where I am heading and where I will live in the future - right now I enjoy it here. I still have to figure out how my life is supposed to look 10 years in the future (but seriously: who knows that?). I enjoy learning things and have conversations with positive people. I live life to the fullest, but the road is not paved yet and I don't want to follow anyone's footsteps.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing stuff and I heard I have a thing with words. I'm really good with being 'there' in the moment and then I am not easily distracted or just cut the distractions off. I'm good at motivating people and bringing out the best in others!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My loud voice and that I smile and laugh a lot - that's alway the first thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Game Of Thrones, Lolita, Siddharta, Hitchikers Guide To The Galaxy, The Hobbit and absolutely everything from Chuck Palahniuk and Haruki Murakami

Movies: Fight Club, Donnie Darko, The Crow, Batman Returns, The Notebook, P.S.: I Love You, Strange Days, Big Fish, The Wrestler, Warrior, Drive, The Royal Tenenbaums, Superbad... (ask: there is more :-))

Shows: House M.D., The Office, Game Of Thrones, Modern Family, Dexter, Breaking Bad, Twin Peaks, Arrow, Homeland, The Walking Dead, Hannibal, House of Cards, Skins

Music: Burial, Misery Signals, Pendulum, Carcer City, Skrillex, Solace, All Shall Perish, Heaven Shall Burn, Justin Bieber, Parkway Drive, Bury Tomorrow, The Ghost Inside, Comeback Kid, A Day To Remember, Dave Matthews Band, Four Tet, Breaking Benjamin, Converge, The Glitch Mob... (to name a few, but all across the spectrum)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- books or generally stuff to read, I must read things all the time, I think that is a condition, but I like that one
- music (it helps me a lot and shaped me in many ways)
- role models (people I look up to and people (real or not) to learn from and question myself and people around me and life)
- friends
- physical activities
- food, water, beer and internet access
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why we have to sleep and how our energy levels work. I also like to think about alternative timelines and what I like in people I meet and what there qualities are.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
usually in the Shanghai Brewery for some beers and then see where the evening goes, but usually I find myself in bed before 2am. Lame, eh? But then I wake up pretty early on Saturday and get the most out of the weekend...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not shy, but when things get serious I need some time to realize that, so I am slow in that way...
You should message me if
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If you like what you read here and if you are into men with beards :-)

I think of Shanghai as a temporary place and I think it could be interesting to walk this walk together for a bit or for long - so don't be shy!

I like superheroes, Justin Bieber, all things apple, efficiency and hardcore concerts. Weird? You tell me!