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40 Danbury, CT Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and very serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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A good woman is not hard to find. She's just hard to run game on!

I can not be tamed, nor do I want to be!

I am looking for someone who is financially and emotionally stable. Someone who finds joy in cherishing me.

Some people pray...I turn up the radio.

"Raise my hands
Paint my spirit gold
And bow my head
Feel my heart slow"

All I want is to love and be loved back. It's really THAT simple.
Please don't compare me to another person.I am my own person.

“I disregard the proportions, the measures, the tempo of the ordinary world. I refuse to live in the ordinary world as ordinary women. To enter ordinary relationships. I want ecstasy. I am a neurotic -- in the sense that I live in my world. I will not adjust myself to the world. I am adjusted to myself.”

Despite all the things, I cannot give up that idea that there is a man out there that looks at the world the same way as I do. I remain hopeful that he's out there. People take more time shopping for a TV or a car than their partner for life. I will take my time, though I wonder where he is and what he's doing right now...damn him!

" I learned the hard way that I cannot always count on others to respect my feelings, even if I respect theirs. Being a good person doesn’t guarantee that others will be good people, too. You only have control over yourself and how you choose to be as a person. As for others, you can only choose to accept them or walk away.”

The most beautiful people I have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen!

I'm a good person with strong morals, and values and I do the right thing even when no one is looking. I'm not looking for the flashy guy, or the best looking guy, or the one who makes the most money. I want someone who can weather the storms, be gentle,speak kind words, love me on my best days and my worst days, and not make me feel bad about it.

Perfection does not exist. I love people who have overcome adversity, as I've overcome mine. I am who I am. I want someone who brings the best out in me and in turn want to do the same.I am serious about meeting someone and I know it takes time and a lot of effort. You have to put in the time to reap the reward, and that's with everything in life. It's hard to find people in my age group, most are married and settled down or are single and living the crazy single life. I just want normal, what ever that means.

I believe that...
Living with integrity means:
Not settling for less than what you know you deserve in your relationships.
Asking for what you want and need from others.
Speaking your truth, even though it might create conflict or tension.
Behaving in ways that are in harmony with your personal values.
Making choices based on what you believe, and not what others believe.

Be where the sun shines even in the shade! Sat Nam
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Helping to make other peoples lives better.

Remaining a work in progress
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people laugh
The first things people usually notice about me
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Outside : eyes, smile, and laugh
Inside: Strength, compassion and conviction
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too many to get into...that's more of a discussion
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My mind
Good health
Being my authentic self
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next endeavor
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Coffee shop
Doing nerd stuff
Enjoying myself
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll never tell ...shhhhhhhhhhhh
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