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38 F Missoula, MT

My Details

Last Online
Jul 20
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Not at all
Christianity, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Relatively new to Missoula. Moved from the East Coast this past fall because I wanted more fun and less uptight people.

I am easily amused and entertained, and love to try new things and explore new places. I'm always looking to meet new people to play with. At the moment I'm really just looking for friends. I am in an open relationship with a man that I absolutely adore, so he comes first. So you've gotta be down with the poly thing if you are interested in being more than friends. I am open to whatever life throws at me...I've learned not to place expectations on interpersonal relationships.

I'm a bit of a chameleon...I can fit in just about anywhere if I try. But I prefer to be in those situations where I am not required to fit in and I can just be myself. Myself tends to involve a lot of sarcasm and swearing.

I'm a scuba addict, and miss it horribly! Would love to find a fresh water dive buddy here. I also love to find other outdoor activities when I can...kayaking, hiking, exploring random places. Just learned to snowboard and x-country ski this winter and am in love with both!! Learning to rock climb now that the weather is nicer. I want to get into horseback riding (have done a little back east), and try my hand at hunting too. Always looking for people to get out and play with.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a recovering lawyer. Currently doing administrative/legalish work in the health care industry.

I'd love to end up in a scuba related prefession. Getting my certs is more challenging in a landlocked state, so I'm focusing on enjoying this MT adventure :) And my log cabin here makes a lovely home base for diving adventures!
I’m really good at
Making people feel comfortable being themselves.

Being sarcastic.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Narrowing this down would be next to impossible. Besides, it's fun to discover this shit when getting to know someone. But a general idea...
Reading...I was on a zombie kick for a while but find myself gravitating back to scifi lately (tho I'm reading Shogun at the moment...), and I'm usually reading some socialist manifesto/history book as well. I was raised by a librarian...I just love to read!
I'm completely in love with Dexter, The Walking Dead, Dr. Who, American Horror Story and The Following, but I also have trouble turning away from crime procedural dramas, Star Trek, and have recently started watching West Wing. I don't do live TV tho...Netflix or on demand...I hate commercials.
Movie wise I prefer action or horror or psychological thriller. When in the mood I can dig a good drama. And every now and then I indulge my inner adolescent with a teeny bopper romance (Stop judging me!).
I listen to just about every kind of music (current earworms: Elvis Costello, Flobots, Nickel Creek, Evanescence, Jodi Messina, Yonder Mountain String Band, Todd Agnew, Macklemore, Alt-J, Imagine Dragons, John Denver).
I love food...especially sushi and Ethiopian food, both of which I miss tons. Oh, and Mac & Cheese...I'm a M&C connoisseur. Don't knock it!
The six things I could never do without
I can do without just about everything other than the obvious (food, air, etc.). However, I can't imagine life without books, music, yarn, scuba diving, bdsm and puppies!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Zombies, vampires, kink, revolution, people think and what it would be like to be in someone else's head...why humans are the way they are...what cool new knit projects I want to start..when and where I'm going to dive next....or snowboard next...or climb next....or if it's nap time...
On a typical Friday night I am
No such thing as a typical Friday night....gaming perhaps?....exploring?....a quiet night in?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am not in the least bit vanilla. If you aren't into kink, then we will never be more than friends. Not that I mind making new friends...that's really all I am looking for most of the time :D

I'm scared of the dark. Tho it doesn't stop me from living in a remote area, camping, or night diving.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 26–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to go exploring some random places with me. :)

You have a fun, challenging board game to teach me.

You are into a fun outdoor activity you want to introduce me to/teach me.

And if you want to actually meet...I'm not into endless online/email messaging.

Don't bother messaging me if:
- You're in a relationship and are just looking to cheat on your significant other (open relationship and poly-peeps are fine however)
- You're only interested because you think my being bi/pan means you'll get a threesome out of it
- You just want to talk about sex and nothing else