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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30-51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 3:32am
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Sharp mind with a soft heart seeks same.

"The Grand Budapest Hotel" is coming soon to Thalian Hall's Cinematique series! "You see, there are still faint glimmers of civilization left in this barbaric slaughterhouse that was once known as humanity." Screwball comedy meets wistful reverie on the Empire of Empire. Who's in?!

Oh, the challenge of the verbal selfie. Here, intelligent independent women, baseball, art, Latin America, my dog, progressive politics, punk rock, open-minded and creative friends, theatre & performing arts, discovering new places, trying new restaurants, goofy fun, hiking, live music, bowling, conversation both stimulating and not-so-serious.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a university professor. Moved to Wilmington six years ago after many years in southern Arizona. Loved the desert and I'm loving the ocean now.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
trivia, crossword puzzles, making people laugh, dropping "bon mots" in the wrong places
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyeglass frames. They've stayed the same but at various times have signified nerd, punk, retro, emo, hipster, pseudo-intellectual, and pretentious jackass.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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mostly non-fiction, especially history, anthropology & pop culture, love James Ellroy novels; movies of all kinds, classics to what passes for indy: Coen Brothers fanatic & so many documentaries; eclectic musical taste from punk rock to bebop jazz to surf guitar to early country; current restaurant faves: Tandoori Bites, Indochine (everyone says that), Los Primos (R.I.P.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my dog
my career
Indian food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why I'm thinking about things in the way that I'm thinking about them. ( I'm a critical theory and reflexivity casualty)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
scheming to make it less typical. Any ideas?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm an ironclad marshmallow. With another one inside.
You should message me if
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you hate to laugh and love long walks on hot asphalt. And if you think that's funny.