Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I decided to change this because I don't think what I had said a
long time ago about myself still applied or didn't say anything
about who I am. For the obvious answer to the relationship
question, I was married for 20 years and been divorced now for
four. I have three children, two are grown and I have a teenager.
Best people I know. I really don't like talking about me, but here
goes. I am a very deep thinker about many things and emotionally I
feel so much deeper I think than a lot of people. I have real
empathy for situations. I am told I can be compassionate to a
fault, and I suppose its true. What gives me joy in my life is to
serve others in any way I can to make a situation better for them
and when that happens, that is what makes me the happiest. I have
had many ups and downs the past four years on many fronts but I
have leaned many things about myself. I learned from being on here,
that WOW, can people tell some whoppers. LOL but you gotta laugh or
just get off the site. My favorite color is yellow and that is
simply because it is so bright and beautiful...it simply gets
overlooked by blue or purple. NO.no.. Im not crazy I promise. Just
some weird thoughts that come across my mind.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now, I am in the process of just taking care of my children.
I am medically retired, but I own my home and my finances are
stable so please don't let that scare anyone. I worked in the
medical field for many years. Im learning that I wasn't just a wife
and mother, there is a me in here, and Im getting to know who that
is...scary. LOL. I do try to have a sense of humor and I enjoy that
quality in others.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, multi-tasking, and I think Im good at problem solving. I
like tennis, although Im not good at it at all. I also love
kayaking and boating, fishing. I enjoy camping and bonfires and
anything outside. Just to be outside is one of my favorite things.
Nerf gun wars are a wonderful thing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Im told my eyes, my smile, and my ability to be very expressive and
convey my thoughts and ideas very effectively.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I do like to read, but the book has to grab me in the first five
minutes or I get bored. I do love scary movies except I dont like
the language so thats a tough one. The NOTEBOOK is my all time
favorite movie, Forest Gump, Bridesmaids....that was
inappropriately hilarious. I could watch Shawshank over and over.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
2. My kids.
4. My best friend.
6. Affection. And not necessarily in that order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why conflicts cut so deep and divide for so long, and what a vice
pride can be and how letting all that go could solve so many
things. I think about the future of my children and looking forward
to watching them have families of their own some day. I am very
interested in getting in to some volunteer work and have spoken to
a friend about it. I plan to participate in that weekly after I get
a few other things out of the way. I spend time wondering why I
didn't continue playing the trumpet when it was such a brutal
experience to learn in the first place. I spend time wondering if
that special someone will ever find me. I can be alone...but I
don't like to be alone. Affection is such a need for me that I
truly feel lost with out it sometime. I think about what am I the
kind of person that feels like I will choke to death sometimes if I
can get my thoughts out of my head. WOW, I sure have a lot of
things I didn't realize I was thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends or home with all the kids here having dinner for
them and family time, watching them interact. I do like live music
but not a bar person but I am not opposed to going and listening to
some great music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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There is not much I wont admit if im just asked so, not sure how to
answer that one.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are interested in a good woman....and I don't mean good at
phone sex...however...just seeing if you were really paying
attention. I am what you see is what you get and I don't lie or
cheat. Im interested in meeting someone I can share my life with
and truly love.
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