43 Franklin, IN
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My self-summary
I decided to change this because I don't think what I had said a long time ago about myself still applied or didn't say anything about who I am. For the obvious answer to the relationship question, I was married for 20 years and been divorced now for five. I have three children, two are grown and I have a teenager. Best people I know. I really don't like talking about me, but here goes. I am a very deep thinker about many things and emotionally I feel so much deeper I think than a lot of people. I have real empathy for situations. I am told I can be compassionate to a fault, and I suppose its true. What gives me joy in my life is to serve others in any way I can to make a situation better for them and when that happens, that is what makes me the happiest. I have had many ups and downs the past five years on many fronts but I have leaned many things about myself. I learned from being on here, that WOW, can people tell some whoppers. LOL but you gotta laugh or just get off the site. My favorite color is yellow and that is simply because it is so bright and simply gets overlooked by blue or purple. Im not crazy I promise. Just some weird thoughts that come across my mind.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now, I am in the process of just taking care of my children. I am medically retired, but I own my home and my finances are stable so please don't let that scare anyone. I worked in the medical field for many years. Im learning that I wasn't just a wife and mother, there is a me in here, and Im getting to know who that is...scary. LOL. I do try to have a sense of humor and I enjoy that quality in others.
I’m really good at
Cooking, multi-tasking, and I think Im good at problem solving. I like tennis, although Im not good at it at all. I also love kayaking and boating, fishing. I enjoy camping and bonfires and anything outside. Just to be outside is one of my favorite things. Nerf gun wars are a wonderful thing.
The first things people usually notice about me
Im told my eyes, my smile, and my ability to be very expressive and convey my thoughts and ideas very effectively.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I do like to read, but the book has to grab me in the first five minutes or I get bored. I do love scary movies except I dont like the language so thats a tough one. The NOTEBOOK is my all time favorite movie, Forest Gump, Bridesmaids....that was inappropriately hilarious. I could watch Shawshank over and over.
The six things I could never do without
1. GOD.
2. My kids.
3. Mom.
4. My best friend.
5. Sunshine.
6. Affection. And not necessarily in that order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why conflicts cut so deep and divide for so long, and what a vice pride can be and how letting all that go could solve so many things. I think about the future of my children and looking forward to watching them have families of their own some day. I am very interested in getting in to some volunteer work and have spoken to a friend about it. I plan to participate in that weekly after I get a few other things out of the way. I spend time wondering why I didn't continue playing the trumpet when it was such a brutal experience to learn in the first place. I spend time wondering if that special someone will ever find me. I can be alone...but I don't like to be alone. Affection is such a need for me that I truly feel lost with out it sometime. I think about what am I the kind of person that feels like I will choke to death sometimes if I can get my thoughts out of my head. WOW, I sure have a lot of things I didn't realize I was thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends or home with all the kids here having dinner for them and family time, watching them interact. I do like live music but not a bar person but I am not opposed to going and listening to some great music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
There is not much I wont admit if im just asked so, not sure how to answer that one.
You should message me if
You are interested in a good woman....and I don't mean good at phone sex...however...just seeing if you were really paying attention. I am what you see is what you get and I don't lie or cheat. Im interested in meeting someone I can share my life with and truly love.