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stamfordman

41 M Pemberton, NJ

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:41pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism
Sign
Virgo
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Military
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I have lived in Astoria for about 4 years now just moved to New Jersey. I moved here following a 15 yr Army career which has taken me to some amazing places while living in Germany for 7 of those years. Born and raised in CT, and also grew up in TX. I LOVE to travel, cook and enjoy the company of my closest friends very much. I moved to NY to get into the acting biz, which of course is almost impossible, but upon my arrival I spent the summer at the wonderful Neighborhood Playhouse, and starred in an award-winning short film! I'm a proud Italian-American who loves this country and hopes that the traditions and values that founded it will be brought back. I love the theater and film, when done right....zat enough for now?
What I’m doing with my life
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I returned from a tour of duty in Afghanistan in Sept. I now teach Civil Affairs at Ft Dix NJ. I am a Civil Affairs Specialist, which entails winning the hearts and minds, so to speak of folks on their homeland. So much corruption here and the trick is to facilitate getting the locals in touch with their own goverment to help them.. When I returned from Iraq in 2005 I went on tour with the Army with a 3 character play in which we toured across the country and throught Europe including Germany, Belgium, Holland, Kosovo, The Neitherlands..how cool is that? So...many options out there for me..I have to pick one. I recently was accepted to NYU and with the help of Uncle Sam, look forward to finally getting my long awaited B.A. I also am being canvassed to be a NY State Court Officer.
I’m really good at
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I'll tell you when we meet...
The first things people usually notice about me
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Jeez..I guess my smile or my eyes?...You can tell me when I see you:) I am an old-world raconteur and love good conversation.
And if you can make me laugh....you have won me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food: Italian, naturally..and I love to cook as well. But I love trying food from almost any culture and background, preferably homemade.
Movies: Raging Bull Godfather 1-2 All that Jazz, Blade Runner Butch and the Kid, Midnight Run Singing in the Rain..Film Noir to the Golden Age...I love a great film no matter what era. There aren't truly great films made today
Books: Mamet, Williams, Bill Shakespeare...I enjoy books that pertain to a skill on how to do something.
Music: Steely Dan, ELO, Chicago, Pink Floyd...to Sinatra and the guys and gals from that era...I LOVE music that gets into my body and soul...such a cliche but, no other way to describe it. A great pop song will have me humming for days.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Ha!...well let's see.
The love of my friends and family
My 1st Communion ring that I have worn since I was 9
My photographs of my travels.
Being clean
Laughing
My morning cup of Joe
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The things that will help me achieve my goals in life.
Wondering where good manners and fashion went. ( I should have been living in the 40's)
Traveling again like I did when I lived in Europe
Making a film again and getting back to the theater
And of course, meeting that woman who knocks me out and steals my heart, that I would move mountains for....
Alright, alright.. Enough for now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home cooking or writing...at the moment working alot. But I try to get to NY/CT often to see friends and family
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
After spending countless hours watching my Dad bowl in leagues and tournaments while growing up....I don't know how to keep score...Isn't that absurd?.Thank goodness they have electric scoreboards now.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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I may be involved with the military, but I'm not the stereotypical trooper, so......
Do message me if you have a glorious sense of humor and adventure, are a social person who likes good company and enjoys people, as well a quiet night at the hacienda, or a lazy Sunday, in other words, simply, a good woman with soul who is looking for a solid connection..
... And if want to have a glass of wine tonight;)