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stammae

29 / F / straight / Single

Gaithersburg, Maryland

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and very serious about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English, German (Poorly)

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I am intense, supportive, and nerdy.

My Self-Summary

Maggie is a fairly quiet girl more interested in bike riding than bar hopping. She is always impressed by people who know themselves, have interesting things to say and constantly challenge themselves. Maggie cares about the environment, has no strong religious views and is always respectful of others beliefs.
Maggie also misunderstood the instructions during the profile setup. Sorry for the Bob Dole impersonation!

What I’m doing with my life

As big picture items, I'm learning to be a better friend, working as a bureaucrat, developing my own traditions, biking as much as possible and planning trips. I'm an enginnerd, so forgive me but you won't find any literary marvels here.

I’m really good at

Supporting friends & family through tough times.

Planning for a stable future while finding ways to enjoy the present.

Giving people space in a relationship.

Not sweating the details and taking on challenges.

Focusing on quality rather than quantity.

Finding the positive in a situation.

I'm really bad at:

writing in complete sentences

The first things people usually notice about me

I don't pretend to be a mind-reader.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I'm a decent cook in a wonderfully vegetarian kitchen. I'll try anything once, as long as it doesn't have meat. I'm pretty health conscious (I know my BMR and track how much protein I consume in a day). Thai food never gets old but Southern Indian is coming in a pretty close second these days.

Books and movies are where I revel in being a girl. Jane Austen is my favorite author an I've read Pride&Prejudice dozens of times (please try not to gag). Don't worry, I won't expect you to read my favorite novels.

Movies are kinda a time to tune out for me. That said, I will often purchase a movie because I was really impressed by it as a piece of art, not necessarily because I want to watch it a million times. Also, I can't handle scary stuff. Jurassic Park is my limit.
I like a variety of music, but my pre-set stations are public radio and alternative/hard rock. My all time favorite music is that which my friends and family play live.

The six things I could never do without

My family, we are pretty tight.

I think I would cry if my race bike was stolen or permanently damaged.

Just about everything else is replaceable (even pictures these days, isn't that great?).

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I'm an introvert which doesn't mean I hide in my house all day, but my energy comes from within and I can be pretty introspective. As a result, I frequently think about the direction of my life and global issues. There is a little life-planning exercise I find interesting. Imagine your life at the age of 60. Where are you, what are you doing, and what is important to you? For me, I imagine myself working as a volunteer for a non-profit, building clean drinking water in third world countries. I realize how idealistic and perhaps naive that sounds, but everyone's gotta dream, right?

On a typical Friday night I am

resting in preparation for Saturday's bike ride, or enjoying some wine with friends over a campfire.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Well, I already told you my life goals, so that just about covers it!
Oh, and I get a little teary during during Animal Cops.

You should message me if

You are interested in finding someone with whom you want to spend your days as well as your nights. Or, if you just want to have some stimulating conversations.