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stardustedshade

25 F Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 23–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 28
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Administration
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I'm an introverted extrovert who probably talks too much despite loving to listen to other people. I'm still figuring out a lot about myself but cemented my love for books, movies, and music very early on.

I also tend to forget I have an OKCupid.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work for a non-profit that deals in child welfare, helping with the admin side of two different programs. I also "bind" training manuals so sometimes I'm like a snowglobe--lots of paper bits floating around me.

When I'm not working, I'm usually finding new recipes and putting them in a large folder as I promise myself I'll make them eventually. It usually takes me about a year to get around to each new one. I also see movies as often as I can, and Netflix and I are on very good terms.

I spend a decent amount of time every year on the East Coast, where a majority of my family is. In a similar vein, I spend a lot of my time apologizing to my friends on the East Coast for texting them at three in the morning.

I'm also incredibly competitive about Trivial Pursuit and Candyland. Any other games I'm only mildly competitive.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
deviating from plans when it fits. And when it doesn't. Skipping ingredients I don't like when following a recipe. Laughing awkwardly when I'm nervous. Forgetting important things and remember useless trivia.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I make a lot eye contact. Perhaps gratuitous amounts of eye contact.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
a forever changing list.

I own a gross amount of movies--200+. I really like all of them, even the terrible ones.

My current favorite music is basically just going to 8tracks and listening to the playlists tagged "witches." Most of it seems to fit my taste pretty nicely.

currently very into horror and dumb sitcoms. currently re-watching all of the two seasons of Hannibal and powering through Shameless (US), as well as marathoning Bob's Burgers.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Netflix (and the internet in general)
my car (sometimes you just need to drive)
my family and friends
plants (...even though I only have two left alive)
my phone
and scented candles (even though they make me sneeze)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
media-based things, particularly tv and movies. food. why throwing your head back and laughing is so much more satisfying than just laughing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
recovering from the errands I run every Friday afternoon. Sometimes out and about, but usually watching something on Netflix with a glass of wine or Skyping with a friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I probably spend way too much time finding ways to turn kid's drinks (Capri Suns, etc) in cocktails.
You should message me if
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you have successfully stolen the Declaration of Independence.

Or if you want to talk to me, because I'm really shy about messaging people first no matter what. Because I'm a bit awkward like that.